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| Author: | wingman789 [ Fri Feb 17, 2012 12:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | need quick advice on flake |
I had a second date set up today. I was meeting this hb 8 at her work after her shift for lunch. 30 min before scheduled meet she said hey I don't think its gonna work out today can I get a rain check? I replied with no problem just give me q call when you would like to go out if she never contacted me I was gonna walk but she just messaged me hey sorry about earlier it was crazy busy today I didn't even get off in time to get my sister, I Definetly still want to hang out though! I am pleased with this response, should I propose a new.day now and how many days from now? Help me out quick! |
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| Author: | FCgame [ Fri Feb 17, 2012 10:22 am ] |
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Just call her, stop texting. Prove her that you have balls and call her, why are you going to wait? There is no reason. When you meet her try to get to know her better, that's one of the reasonw why guys get so many flakey numbers becaus all they cared about was a stupid phone number. Try to to ceate a connection with her, that would make things much easier for you. Here you have some tips https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWeQJmd ... 4OKeDCWlQb Good luck |
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| Author: | Musterion [ Fri Feb 17, 2012 2:37 pm ] |
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I agree when setting up a serious Day 2 you should definately call, hearing your voice will make it more personal to her as opposed to you just being words on a screen. Do it in such a way that it almost doesn't matter if she comes or not, for example "Hey I'm going for lunch at **** later on, you're welcome to join". So you've already stated you're going to this place anyway and she has the privilage of being invited to join you, plus it's a much more casual way of doing it that takes a little pressure off the answer. You shouldn't have to go out of your way to meet her at her work, if she's interested (which it looks like she is) then she will come. |
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| Author: | wingman789 [ Sat Feb 18, 2012 1:59 am ] |
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I called her and we set up dinner for Thursday night, it was the only time our schedules didn't clash. she said she would have to talk to her parents first, she's eighteen and has class the next day I'm twenty and I forgot about how parents are an obstacle for people that age. when should I ask her if she talked with them yet? I don't wanna seem anxious about it but I wanna make sure she gets the balls to do it before its to late |
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| Author: | Musterion [ Sat Feb 18, 2012 2:32 pm ] |
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I'd say not to worry too much about if she's asked her parents until Tuesday, if by then you haven't heard anything then just start a casual conversation with her (text, facebook, phone, whatever) without mentioning the date for a while. Then once you've chatted for a bit just casually slip in "oh btw have you spoke to your parents about thursday?". I say Tuesday btw so it gives a little time between then and the date for her to speak to them if she hasn't already. |
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| Author: | wingman789 [ Sat Feb 18, 2012 6:01 pm ] |
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Sounds like good advice to me. If anyone has a different plan let's hear it, I ask questions here so I can get as many perspectives as possible |
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