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Author:  sakim [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 9:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Not sure what to do after first date

Had a fun first date with this girl at the movies (I know :/), went to a cafe afterwards for some drinks and dinner. No awkward moments, did light kinos. I did set up a date before we parted ways. She seemed excited about it as she's heard great thins about the restaurant. It's set for thursday but she's unsure about her work sched. She did say friday for sure would work out for her. But I wasn't sure about my work sched (fail). Went for a hug and kissed her on the cheek afterwards. She texts me later on in the night that she had a lot of fun.

She still hasn't texted me about her work sched. Our first date was on saturday. I texted her yesterday asking how the party she went to was, she texts me how weird it was, then I replied back how I had a great time at this other party. No reply from her after this.

Our day 2 was aupposedly set for thursday. I could do friday too but I don't wanna make it look like I'm investing a lot of time on this.

What to do? Do I text again or call?

Author:  sakim [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 10:16 pm ]
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I guess so. It's just the time that I'm not sure about. Here's the thing though; we actually work together. Part time so different times. Just wasn't sure how I was goin to bring it up to her.

Author:  sakim [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 4:12 am ]
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n/a

Author:  Shyy [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 4:57 am ]
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I would just wait, if you set the date and she had a great time... It's a go.

DW so much man, there is plenty of females out there. Try going out and meeting more women so you don't think so much about this one. ( that is what i would do )
:wink:

Author:  sakim [ Thu Jan 26, 2012 6:17 am ]
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Thank you for your responses! 8)

So I texted her asking if she figured out her schedule, and then she replies with the time. I then told her "Cool, I guess I'll meet you afterwards." She replied with "Are you sure? It's too late :( maybe a different night at an earlier time? I'm not a fan of eating late at night". I then told her I'm off earlier on Saturday and then she says she's already going to a friend's bday party that night. I just replied with "Ok, we'll just figure something out."

No reply from her after that. Am I just over thinking in assuming that she's just not interested? Not sure if anything I've said to her is too AFC-ish.

Author:  sakim [ Sun Jan 29, 2012 9:26 pm ]
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Just found out I'm not available at all next week. I'll see her at work most likely Thursday next week. I want to make her feel I'm still here though, how do I keep interest?

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