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| Author: | CharlosCarlies [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 3:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Responding to late night texts? |
So I just had a day two w/ this girl and everything went really really well. She texted me immediately after on her way home w/ like: "Hope I'm not annoying you but I really had a great time" and texted me throughout the day yesterday. I left things on a high note right around 8 pm and fell asleep. She texted me around 11:30 ish w/ just something like: Her: "Wow I got really rowdy this weekend, especially last night haha". We had gone to a DJ show and danced pretty much all night, so I'm guessing she's just trying to start the convo back up? Should I even respond to texts like these the day after and if so does timing matter much? I know I'm over-thinking the details. I'm just curious as to what you guys think because I fall asleep during texting quite a bit w/ this girl. |
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| Author: | Vietman100 [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 4:48 pm ] |
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Quote: I know I'm over-thinking the details.
You are. Text her whenever you feel like it. Personally, whenever I'm at a high point with a girl like the way you are, I stop texting and start giving her phone calls here and there for short conversations.
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| Author: | CharlosCarlies [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 5:13 pm ] |
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Thanks...yeah that seems like a good idea. It's been a long time since I've had phone conversations with a girl I'm actually interested in, so should I just wait for when I actually have a couple funny stories, strange happenings, etc to talk about? |
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| Author: | CharlosCarlies [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 5:15 pm ] |
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And just as an aside comment, I called her for the first time to set up the day 2 and it seems like she's been incredibly responsive since then. She was all giggly and w/e which makes me wonder if a lot of guys are just afraid to pick up the phone these days and girls notice this? |
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| Author: | Vietman100 [ Thu Jan 26, 2012 6:22 am ] |
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Who knows if they do? I'm sure there are some girls who are smart enough to notice, and there are dumb/dont give a shit kind of girls who don't notice. The point is as a guy you just gotta man up. Can't reap the rewards if you don't take the risk. |
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| Author: | CharlosCarlies [ Thu Jan 26, 2012 5:41 pm ] |
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Last time we hung out she did mention that she doesn't like talking on the phone. She obviously loves to text. I'm sure she would appreciate a phone call every once in a while either way, but do you think there are actually girls that mean this? |
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| Author: | Vietman100 [ Thu Jan 26, 2012 9:41 pm ] |
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Absolutely not. A girl's mind is so fickle, their opinion about something could change in an instant. I've had girls tell me that before too. But it's a little hard to believe when you have them giggling over every little thing you say when you're talking to them on the phone. |
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