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Author:  Behindthepuber [ Mon Jan 16, 2012 9:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Girl not investing back, is she shy or else?
Hi,

I work at a jewellery shop
I got a phone number from this HB6.5 3 days ago in the shop
I should tell you guys i gave her my number and told her to text me so i`ll have her
I do this with chicks that i`m not really fussy if they call me or not.. consider it a Shit test from my side.
sure enough about 2 hours later she texted me "Hey its me keep my number"
we kept texting for the next 3 hours
i did some dhv spikes, Story telling push/pull
Now my problem is that only the 1st text was on her initiative..
Everytime i start the txt messaging and i keep it going on a light funny teasing side.. she does play along but she does not invest back.. she just answers ...
I`m thinking shes other Shy or isnt playful or Is suddenly unitrested but unsure how to get out of it smoothly.

any ideas?
Author:  Phoenix_ [ Mon Jan 16, 2012 10:05 pm ]
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What do you mean not invested? What are you expecting her to reply?
Author:  Behindthepuber [ Mon Jan 16, 2012 10:15 pm ]
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Hi Derek

Let me give you an example..

Me: do you still live with your parents?
HB6.5:Yes its much better Financially
Me: So your parents must be very liberal :)
HB6.5: Actually yes
Me: So you can come back home drunk at 2AM with a tie wearing gorila?
HB6.5: hehe yes.. but i`m not sure my mom will like the gorila bit..
Me: What if the gorilla is wearing a hat?
HB6.5: Then maybe..
Me: Are you wearing the chain you bought from me just now?
HB6.5: no, Why ?
Me: Just wondering..

then i stopped texting..and she will not re initiate chat.. theres no "sooo.. what are you doing bla bla lba..."

This is the 2nd time it happens..
If i don't engage her .. she does not text me at all
what do you think ?
Author:  Phoenix_ [ Tue Jan 17, 2012 12:24 am ]
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Quote:
Hi Derek

Let me give you an example..

Me: do you still live with your parents?
HB6.5:Yes its much better Financially
Me: So your parents must be very liberal :)
HB6.5: Actually yes
Me: So you can come back home drunk at 2AM with a tie wearing gorila?
HB6.5: hehe yes.. but i`m not sure my mom will like the gorila bit..
Me: What if the gorilla is wearing a hat?
HB6.5: Then maybe..
Me: Are you wearing the chain you bought from me just now?
HB6.5: no, Why ?
Me: Just wondering..

then i stopped texting..and she will not re initiate chat.. theres no "sooo.. what are you doing bla bla lba..."

This is the 2nd time it happens..
If i don't engage her .. she does not text me at all
what do you think ?
It sounds like you keep asking her questions, but not giving her anything to question you about. I wouldn't stop texting her. If you repeatedly stop responding its just gonna make her more uninterested in you.

Why you worried about this for so much? Texting is used for two main purposes, building comfort and interest and getting dates. Yeah you can tell DHV stories, you can throw cute little one-liners, tease her but if your not gonna get a date from her your wasting your time.

When you have a face-to-face conversation, then you will have a better chance at judging her personality and judge her interest level.

So cut the pointless conversations, start talking about a place you haven't been in a while, ask her when the last she's been there, and recommend you two go the together. If she doesn't wanna go, try again next week or the week after that. If she doesn't wanna go at all, move on!

Now go get'em Puber!
Author:  Behindthepuber [ Tue Jan 17, 2012 12:40 am ]
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You're right
Thanks derek
Author:  Phoenix_ [ Tue Jan 17, 2012 12:51 am ]
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Quote:
You're right
Thanks derek
No problem :wink:. PM how it goes.
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