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Author:  HardcoreGR [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 3:06 pm ]
Post subject:  First call (which ended in FB chat)

Ok, I had my post successful pickup so far, because that girl is a 10, and I've met her from a friend of mine (so it's not actually a true pickup). Anyway, I used good openers, danced with her, used all of Myster's Kinos, god a kiss from the well-known "2 fingers game" he had first shown to Predeep, and in total I got about 4-5 IOIs. I also used about 3 negs that night and they really worked. Because these 10s really need their negs.

So I called her 2 days after that night, she didn't answer the call, instead she sent me an SMS late at night. I didn't call her of course, but we exchanged some sms messages than talked in Facebook. She said that she was really impressed about my job and stuff like these.

When it comes to going out, I always say "Let's go out some of these days" without mentioning ("the two of us" or "all together"). So she got the meaning that we should go for a drink close to where I live. But she also mentioned that "If we don't go there, we can also hang out with the girls, and go out together next time". I said "Ok, I'll call you for details" and I closed the conversation and said goodnight, so that I can be the closer in this case.

So what is all that supposed to mean? Because I'm gonna call her on Thursday and offer to go out. Should I show that I will only propose to her? Leave the decision to her hands? What would you suggest in this case? I'd also like some preferable quotes as well.

Thanks.

Author:  mickeyjackson21 [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 5:31 pm ]
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Instead of ASKING her out, you OFFER her out. major difference between the two. you making her an offer to go somewhere shows that you are the one in charge and you have the upper hand. whereas if you ask her, then she's the one in charge and makes the decisions.

You can say something like "Let's meet up for a drink sometime. How about me meet at LOCATION at TIME on DAY." this sounds more dominant, and commanding. can you see that in this phrase you dont wait for her to agree yet, but you assume that she likes you and definitely going to meet up which is better than being unsure and completely reliant on her call. this is basically the same as a business proposition. you make it look good, irresistible, and as they say in the godfather "i'll make you an offer you can't refuse" lol.

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