Today we were talking about stuff, then I sent her a message like this:
"I had to clean our conversation history because u talk too much!!"
She then replied, "U're the one talking, I just answer
"wow...guys?
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| Author: | harllequin [ Sat Jan 07, 2012 3:35 am ] |
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Hey guys, i'm new around here and i'm from brazil so sorry if something is wrong about my text. I met this girl on FB (yeah, i know)a HB8, shes very cool and stuff, i started just chatting with her on FB, then got her number.I text her everyday, we always talk about everything but she NEVER starts conversations, i'm being C&F with her, I call her my girlfriend and stuff and she just laughs.The one thing that really bothers me is that she never starts conversation.Any tips? |
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| Author: | GetFamiliar [ Sat Jan 07, 2012 5:10 am ] |
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Some women just prefer it if you would start the conversation. I suggest you stop worrying about that. Your concern should be setting up a date. |
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| Author: | harllequin [ Sat Jan 07, 2012 10:54 pm ] |
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Today we were talking about stuff, then I sent her a message like this: "I had to clean our conversation history because u talk too much!!" She then replied, "U're the one talking, I just answer "wow...guys? |
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| Author: | GetFamiliar [ Sun Jan 08, 2012 12:04 am ] |
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Quote: Today we were talking about stuff, then I sent her a message like this:
She's comfortable joking around with you...that's a good thing. I see no problem with that. You could easily have responded with something along the lines of, "You sound like a magic 8ball now lol. Tell me my fortune.""I had to clean our conversation history because u talk too much!!" She then replied, "U're the one talking, I just answer "wow...guys? However, I would like you to clarify something. When you say "NEVER starts conversations", do you mean she never texts first or are you saying that she only gives you dead-end responses? If you are saying neither of those, then I still ask that you clarify. |
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| Author: | harllequin [ Sun Jan 08, 2012 12:49 am ] |
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Both, lol. |
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| Author: | GetFamiliar [ Sun Jan 08, 2012 1:21 am ] |
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Quote: Both, lol.
Okay, well, I cannot promise you that she will text you first if you change your manner of texting, but you should see some improvement in conversational flow if you follow these tips:1. Ask her how she feels and thinks about some specific thing. Women want to talk about themselves, but they don't want to feel like they're talking too much so some won't talk very much unless they feel that you are inviting them to talk. Give her the invitation to open up to you by asking questions. 2. Avoid making statements that can be replied to with few words. You might be setting yourself up to hit the dead-end by making too many statements that don't inspire lengthy responses from her. You want to get her to say as many words as possible while yourself saying as few words as possible. 3. Stop texting her everyday. You're becoming too dependent on text. Don't text her for a day then ask her out on a date before she loses interest. 4. Ask Don Draper for help. previous-vt100492.html?postdays=0&posto ... &start=480 |
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| Author: | harllequin [ Sun Jan 08, 2012 2:04 am ] |
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Thanks a lot man, i'll put these to good use. |
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