Thx so much for the advice.
yh I've tried freeze-outs. She even picked me out on the freeze-outs saying 'why do you suddenly stop making out and do some other stuff? it annoys me'
You're right I shouldn't get her any gifts or play into all of this. I'm gonna see her after xmas and I was thinking of just suggesting ice skating (each paying for their own damn part ofcouse
) and then bounce back to mine and try close then. She has been asking me to commit so I think a dinner date will give her idea I'm looking for a relationship. Quote:
Actually...when I'm on a date. Unless the girl is broke we will all pay our own parts. Buying her gifts is actually the last thing you should be doing. She refuses to have sex with you so you buy her gifts... Like rewarding her for this behaviour. Not good. Not good at all. She may get something AFTER you had sex, but it's still unnecessary.
Oh and what can you do to make sure the fclose happens in the third night? There's two ways I can suggest, depending on how much balls you have.
1) Easy. when you're at the good parts and you feel that she's horny but yet comfortable you take off your pants and undies exposing your erect cock to her. If this doesn't make her have sex with you, nothing will...
2) So let's say you think this one's too risky and want to play it safer.
-Note. It's always better NOT to choose the safe way...but anyways...
So you're moving forward and at some point she stops you. Okay. Stay cool. Just stop the whole sexual intercourse RIGHT at that moment. No cuddling, no kissing, no other sexual shit. You start doing other things...but at the same time you don't care. I'd suggest something like "I've gotten hungry. I go find something to eat...do you want something?" Don't act wounded or upset, just totally normal. This is very important for this to work!
This will make her feel bad. And that's what you want. You want to program her mind that when she rejects she will feel bad. Women are emotional. So she will want to feel good, and try to get close. As soon as this happens you can start the whole thing all over until she even lets you or rejects you again. I bet you don't have to do this more than 2-3 times the night to finally get her laid. If you do, then she's REALLY not ready yet. That would be too bad...
Oh and what can you do to make sure the fclose happens in the third night? There's two ways I can suggest, depending on how much balls you have.
1) Easy. when you're at the good parts and you feel that she's horny but yet comfortable you take off your pants and undies exposing your erect cock to her. If this doesn't make her have sex with you, nothing will...
2) So let's say you think this one's too risky and want to play it safer.
-Note. It's always better NOT to choose the safe way...but anyways...
So you're moving forward and at some point she stops you. Okay. Stay cool. Just stop the whole sexual intercourse RIGHT at that moment. No cuddling, no kissing, no other sexual shit. You start doing other things...but at the same time you don't care. I'd suggest something like "I've gotten hungry. I go find something to eat...do you want something?" Don't act wounded or upset, just totally normal. This is very important for this to work!
This will make her feel bad. And that's what you want. You want to program her mind that when she rejects she will feel bad. Women are emotional. So she will want to feel good, and try to get close. As soon as this happens you can start the whole thing all over until she even lets you or rejects you again. I bet you don't have to do this more than 2-3 times the night to finally get her laid. If you do, then she's REALLY not ready yet. That would be too bad...