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| Author: | SeductMe [ Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:07 pm ] |
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I've been gaming this hb, and we haven't met yet (met her once at a party). she's sending too many IOI's till now (2 months), however i coudn't ask her out earlier because i was not in town. Anyways, i got her number and called her Wednesday night, we talk for about 12min, she was having good time, laughing and i was teasing her, she shows IOI's, I suggest to meet. Me: When can i see you? HB: when can you finish your exams. Me: Don't bother my exams... (ouch, those AFC thoughts again, hopefully she stops me) HB: No, seriously! lol Me: Saturday. HB: Ok then, see you saturday. Me: ok, i'll call you to tell you where and when we meet. Friday night, i call, we talk for 12MIN lool: HB: I missed you, why don't you come online Me: I got so much to do, plus i have exams. So for tommorow... HB: tomorrow? (she cuts me) Me: Yea, when do you finish school? HB: usually i finish 6pm but i'm going out at 3pm blablabla hanging out with my freinds then blablabla (she has many plans, but i decided not to force her on a time and not to let her tell me that she got no time, specially her parents are very protective and she can't go downtown whenever she wants, so i said...) Me: Well once you finish school and go downtown call me. HB: Okay. she was in a great mood and happy when i asked her out, i don't get it. I'm not sure if my mistake was not fully taking the lead because i haven't planned a specific time and place to meet. and i think that girls gives priority to girls-hangouts over dates, so maybe she didn't have time to meet up. I haven't called or texted her, i'm waiting to see if she will call or bring it up, f she doesnt, i'll have to call her tomorrow and decide to: 1- punish her , call her on her garbage. 2- act s if it did'nt happen, and act as if it didn't affect me. so any ideas? |
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| Author: | siskokidd [ Sat Nov 19, 2011 8:03 pm ] |
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im no pro, but i'd say call her on it then laugh it off kinda thing. like hey thats messed up, but its alright i was kickin it with the homies. idk dont quote me im just wondering what others would say about my response. |
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| Author: | SeductMe [ Sun Nov 20, 2011 3:17 pm ] |
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Quote: im no pro, but i'd say call her on it then laugh it off kinda thing. like hey thats messed up, but its alright i was kickin it with the homies. idk dont quote me im just wondering what others would say about my response.
I thought the same at first, but if she perceiv it as if i allow this type of behavior, and i accept what she did, it won't score for me. besides, getting mad about it will only convey that i'm needy and desperate.the best response i thought of is not mention anything, and when she mention it i'll just tell her that i was busy anyway and she haven't called (i told her on phone that she would call me and if i'm not busy we'll hangout). we chatted on facebook and she told me she didn't went downtown, and "maybe next time" that i replied to with "maybe :p" |
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