Hey d. This makes me think of a bigger topic -- facebook game.
I say, never add chicks on facebook. Not girls you want. They can add you if they want -- but I still don't accept unless we're pretty much a couple. You can message them without adding them (and you can playfully deny their friend request until "I know you better :)" )
The reason? Becoming friends on facebook is actually rather intimate. You're really letting them in. The moment you do it they can see all your dumbass comments and non-flattering pictures -- very hard things for a new attraction to survive.
I could write a book on this, but this isn't the time. But I will say, if you're gonna use facebook in your game, you need to pay close attention to your profile and make it as attractive as possible. (Basically, don't use it, have very few "likes", and make sure you're only tagged in good pictures.)
On to your specific case ...
"Anyone know why women do this?" Do what? Talk to you until they decide they're not into you, then stop? Isn't that a human thing? :)
From the simple fact she hasn't replied, I'm inclined to say let it go -- though it's hard to be sure without your messages and her replies. I usually quit if something's not hot.
If you re-ignite, don't mention the fact she hasn't replied -- it will remind her of it, and she will think (fairly or not) that you've been obsessing about it. Instead, maybe try the thing where you tell her you'll be out with your guys, if she's out with her girls. Or a simple number exchange, since your crew and her crew are always both out.
Or what about this: "Yeah yeah, okay, I guess you knew where this was going -- wanna get a drink sometime? I cant remember much from Friday, so no pressure. I just remember thinking you were kind of interesting :)"
If you do that, don't let a "no" ruin your day :)
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