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Author:  Absoliutas [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 6:29 pm ]
Post subject:  I am starting to lose hope.
I number closed one HB ~9 in the club (tried kiss close but failed).

After the first night we met I send her a message:

"hey you kinda impressed me tonight and I don't get impressed very often. Kepp up the good work "

She didn't replied.

Yesterday I sent her a fb invite, she accepted it and texted me a massage (to mobile phone):

"Yaaaay! Hiya bla bla bla how are you?"

She texted it in the middle of the night (2 am) so I pretented that I was sleeping. So next day I texted her:

"I am great! And you?"

Then we texted about how are we, what have we been up to bla bla bla and I send her this:

"So when my lecture and your show finishes let's do something more exciting:p"

Waited reply for an hour and then tried to call her, she didn't picked up so I texted her:

"Do you know how to play pool?;p"

No reply. I don't understand what I am doing wrong. This happens with EVERY GIRL that I number close!!!!! :(
Author:  bullshitter1 [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 6:52 pm ]
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Women......
Author:  dorf [ Sat Nov 05, 2011 4:38 am ]
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i think we all have this problem where everything goes great and then it just goes downhill. anyone got any answers?
Author:  Netsky [ Sat Nov 05, 2011 8:31 am ]
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The most problem guys have with number closing is not getting the responses you want on the days following. It's usually because you didn't build enough rapport and comfort. Even if you hit it off with the her, flirting, escalating, push & pull, all that jazz, if you don't incorporate rapport into it, a lot of the times they won't have anything to remember you by. You have to give them something to hang on to. I know with me, the very first things I do before I even escalate kino sometimes is I build rapport so the next day when a girl replays the night from before she remembers the things we had in common and how I teased her on the things we didn't agree on. From my experience, the best thing to do is stop sending her messages with attempts at trying to see her again. Have a nice exchange of texts concerning connection building. Then try to see if you can meet up with her sometime. If you do happen to meet with her, YOU HAVE to make sure you mix building rapport in addition to what you did the first night.

Side note: I know everytime I try to transition into day 2 or 3 I make sure I incite the same feelings I left them with before I try to ask them out. I like calling girls since most guys don't do that on day 3 and I have a little chat with her. Telling her the highlight of my day then asking her how hers was (doing this all while acting the way I did when i met her) and then I transition into something like, "hey, I'm going to go grab a bite, we should go get something, how does "x" sound?". It rarely fails me, if it does, it's a genuine excuse.
Author:  sunhawk [ Sat Nov 05, 2011 9:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I am starting to lose hope.
Quote:
I number closed one HB ~9 in the club (tried kiss close but failed).

After the first night we met I send her a message:

"hey you kinda impressed me tonight and I don't get impressed very often. Kepp up the good work "

She didn't replied.

Yesterday I sent her a fb invite, she accepted it and texted me a massage (to mobile phone):

"Yaaaay! Hiya bla bla bla how are you?"

She texted it in the middle of the night (2 am) so I pretented that I was sleeping. So next day I texted her:

"I am great! And you?"

Then we texted about how are we, what have we been up to bla bla bla and I send her this:

"So when my lecture and your show finishes let's do something more exciting:p"

Waited reply for an hour and then tried to call her, she didn't picked up so I texted her:

"Do you know how to play pool?;p"

No reply. I don't understand what I am doing wrong. This happens with EVERY GIRL that I number close!!!!! :(
One piece of advice I'd have is if a girl you're interested in doesn't respond to a text/call then always wait at least 2-3 days if not more time before trying to contact her again. I even feel this way if it is a girl I have been dating. If they don't respond to a text/call, then don't dig yourself in a deeper whole by trying to text/call again quickly...you want the girl to think you are busy doing other things w/ your life and that you are a happy, busy, productive person.

Hang in there, bro. I've had things go downhill recently w/ several girls I thought I had in the bag after really successful 1st and 2nd interactions...Sometimes I feel like I do everything wrong and yet I will be successful and other times I feel I do everything right and still fail...it is strange. Sometimes they just flake out, or do the opposite of what even the "experts" say in situations. I find that womens' reactions are quite unpredictable. Things can turn around fast and positive things can happen when you least expect it so don't let any single girl get your spirits down.
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