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| Author: | XnonameX [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 2:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Help with Day 2ing! |
I tend to Meet Girls when out at bars, in that whole drunk/bar/club scene. Usually not a problem to get a number or two, and, at least in my most recent example, kiss closing. However, now that I have this girl's number, whose into me, what do I do? I met her on a Friday, and the next day she wasn't going out, while I was. No Big Deal. Yet now I am at a loss. Do I wait until next weekend and bring her back into that environment? Or should I bring her on a "date"? Not sure what kind of day 2's are even appropriate for this. Am I over-analyzing, and just get lunch with her or something? To me it seems so boring to get food or go to a movie. But getting drunk all the time is low class and repetitive. I hope I have been clear and concise, and I am more than happy to provide a more specific example, or more details if you need. Thanks in advance for your help! |
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| Author: | Slip n Slide [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 2:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with Day 2ing! |
Quote: I tend to Meet Girls when out at bars, in that whole drunk/bar/club scene.
I started running into that same problem. I'm learning to handle my day 2's a lot better though, so here's some stuff I've figured out:Usually not a problem to get a number or two, and, at least in my most recent example, kiss closing. However, now that I have this girl's number, whose into me, what do I do? I met her on a Friday, and the next day she wasn't going out, while I was. No Big Deal. Yet now I am at a loss. Do I wait until next weekend and bring her back into that environment? Or should I bring her on a "date"? Not sure what kind of day 2's are even appropriate for this. Am I over-analyzing, and just get lunch with her or something? To me it seems so boring to get food or go to a movie. But getting drunk all the time is low class and repetitive. I hope I have been clear and concise, and I am more than happy to provide a more specific example, or more details if you need. Thanks in advance for your help! Wait til the next weekend, though its helpful to text before this. Halfway through the week, wednesday or thursday, text her. Give her one medium length text and gauge her interest from there. Be funny, not overeager, just focus on making a good impression on her. Gently suggest a meeting with her. Then on friday or saturday, text or call her. "Let's go get food!" is a fantastic, copy-and-paste invite. Have the logistics worked out, know where you'll get food and where you'll go after. This can be anything. Frisbee or basketball is good if you have some skill in those, if you think you'd be good at prop comedy and can have fun easily, take her on an adventure through Toys R Us, just something she will have fun doing that creates a natural DHV for you. Continued logisitics: Have a place to go after where you can close. Don't count on going back to your place or whatever, but maybe drop a hint in conversation and suggest it when the time feels right. Don't expect her to be anything. You barely know this girl, recognize that. Go into it with a clear head, and be understanding to any sort of person she might be. Good luck! |
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| Author: | XnonameX [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 3:17 pm ] |
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Thanks for the tips! Now, I'm going to assume this girl will be going out "to the bars" again this weekend, which got me thinking... Are day 2's supposed to always be during the day? lol I guess I always subconsciously try to recreate the SPAM of the first success, going back to a bar, and starting over, but it never works right. So I'll take her out during the day, and if all goes well make plans for the night? Any creative day2 ideas? Thanks! |
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