Quote: i was planing on callin her today or 2morrow and invite her to come see American Gangster wit me and some freinds, if she does the call u back thing again i was thinkin that i would tell her that im tryin to figure out the feelings i have for you, and that i was never initaily attracted to you until we talked and i realized how much we have in common, and how your full of life, then i was gonna let her know that im beginnig to lose attraction for her bc she breaks promises (no call backs), and that she shouldnt bother callin if she doesnt want to call me back.
how does that sound? please critique me Captain, and friends.
Phenom, you sound like a good kid (young im guessing) and I want to help you out, because your story reminds me of myself (sorta). You are going to send her a weird message that will surely drive her away. You are going from hard core puaing (i.e. to many negs, being uninterested) to “I'm trying to figure out my feelings” and taking her to a movie (even with your friends). I used to always want to salvage relationships that I thought were awesome, before they ever really were a relationship. So why was I so sure they were going to be awesome? Then I just started to not care so much about that one girl and looked at the bigger picture. If this is the first girl you are trying to Sarge and you TRULY like her then keep talking to her but sarge some other women. Watch how they act, get a better feel for their body language your body language towards them, learn how to use stories and experiences to heighten there sexual desire for you. After a month or so of that go back to her and just lay it down!
Quick story: There was this girl in my office a straight HB9 that started a year or so ago. I AFCed it way up and went out bought her a book for Christmas, would buy her coffee's all kinds of cute stuff. I would always ask her to go out, but could never figure out why she never wanted to go HHHHMMMM. So I found out about PUA later on and started to roll with all this info, she still worked with me and I would do the occasional “Hello”. One day tossed out a couple of negs, Mentioned I was having a party, told her I was having a few people over she could come by if she wanted, but I wasn't going to hold my breath. She came by, her friends left her there that night, and the rest is history.
Some times you need to stop gaming, step back, make sure you stay in contact with her, and then go back for the kill later. Hope this helps and that you enjoyed my story.
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. she seemed mildly pissed off the next day about it, i apologized, we fluff for 7min. then i kind of hangup on her b/c my food was burnin i say "ill talk to you l8r my foods burnin bye bye bye bye" and hangup b4 a reply. then i call her the day after and soon as she picksup she said she'll call me back, i say "okay?" and hangup b4 she does (i always do that on her, i hangup as soon as i say good bye and i dont wait for her response) but she doesnt call me back, till i call her today (5 days l8r) and samething happens except she thoroughly explains why she has to call me back and apologizes.