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| Author: | Goldeneye [ Wed Sep 14, 2011 8:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Stood up. Bother again? |
Introduced to a girl at a party a while back by our mutual friend, the hostess. Girl and I spend most of the party in a corner laughing and talking about common interests. By the end of the night we're sitting together on the floor taking silly pictures with my hand on her thigh the whole time (short shorts ftw). I just got out of a relationship and fully realize my game is rusty and I've forgotten a LOT but I worked what I could remember. Lotta yes-ladder stuff, slowly but consistently escalated kino, bonded by taking pics. We basically texted and FB chatted most of every day for the next few week. Talk got pretty dirty pretty fast, despite the fact that she eventually revealed she's seeing a couple of guys and one seems to think he's her bf though she says (at least to me) he's not. I try to get her out a few times and she's busy with this or that. After three weeks of texting, she spends a long night sending lots of dirty talk and pics of her body. I know the things I say turn her on and she is VERY curious and intrigued by the idea of sex with me. After that night I ask her out and she's like "I don't know if it's a good idea to get involved with three guys at once." I finally get a yes out of her for a fun night last weekend. But before the "yes," her first reaction to my question is "Aren't there other girls you'd normally ask?" (WTF.) I responded, "Yes--actually *I've* been asked by a couple of girls. What's relevant right now is that I'M asking YOU." After she agrees, the following days she's unusually scarce and takes a long time to respond to stuff. I go into the weekend with this unshakable gut feeling that I'm gonna get stood up, just can't shake it. After not hearing from her at all the day of, I text her about five hours out to confirm, and she eventually responds asking questions about it again that suggest I have to sell her on it and get her to agree all over again. Whatever. I give only one short response and it's enough to get a very enthusiastic response. We text for a good while that afternoon, then I get busy with stuff and have to get ready also. I show up, call her. Rings forever, no voice mail, so I text saying I'm heading in and it's gonna be loud so to text me when she arrives. More than half an hour later, I get a text saying she's exhausted from her afternoon and is in the middle of cooking dinner with her mother, and is sorry and "I hope it's not too late for you to call your friend." The fuck? That was Saturday--it's Wednesday now. She's been conspicuously absent from Facebook since then, posting only a couple of times since, and never logging onto chat. We've had no contact. And yes, I hooked up with another girl later that night (and got hit on by a cute one I lost track of, dammit) so her absence didn't end up making a difference but STILL. I am NOT a guy who gets stood up, not in a long time, and I don't know how to proceed here. Or do I even bother with her again at all? Between the way she handled the lead-up, the way she handled Saturday, and the fact that she's made zero attempt to follow up, reschedule, apologize, or even find out how the evening ended up, I think it's pretty clear she never intended to show up to begin with. |
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| Author: | Slip n Slide [ Wed Sep 14, 2011 9:03 pm ] |
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Don't put up with that. I hate that sort of thing. Don't contact her. If she contacts you be formal and a little cold. Short texts and don't text back sometimes. Make it clear that you're annoyed with her. From there just see how things go and what you're feeling. |
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