Hey guys, long story short-

i chatted up this girl in the smoking area of the club, she was sitting by herself, to be honest i was drunk so i cant remember, but i do remember she was interested and leaning on me and getting touchy, kissy etc....we spent a good 1 hour talking to each other...we had a few drinks together.

Anyhow, i got too drunk and so did she, i went to the toilet and came back to a handful of guys trying to pick her up.....i cant really remember what happened exactly but i was asking her wtf was going on?? but she seemed to be enjoying the attention.....so i walked off and that was that?

im like that- i have too much pride and tbh, i know i got something good to offer and i was better than those guys so her loss not mine i just left. i didnt want to join the group of douches like a pack of dogs over a piece of drunken meat so i left!

Anyway i felt bad for ditching her the next day, so i smsed her and said hey its me, u get home alright?

she replied quite quickly and said yeah im alright, im going to this bar tonight...

i then replied yeah i'll be out but havent decided where yet, might see you there.

Anyway i didnt end up going to that bar to find her cause i had other things on...and ive been thinking about it.....id actually wouldnt mind to get to know her, she's heaps chill and i dig that...not to mention shes pretty hot.

Anyway, im wondering if u guys think i should send a msg to her? and if so what should i say? or should i wait for her to send me a msg(she probably wont) and if she does then thats a green light to gogogo!!! or should i just not contact her at all and if she doesnt contact me leave it to fate and i might run into her again at the same place.

any help would be greatly appreciated....its frustrating for me cause i get looks in clubs, and i can chat girls up no problems, but the issue is trying to seal the deal.

Thanks guys

me- yeah same, anyway we should meet up for a quite drink sometime when we're both not so drunk haha

took your advice guys...messaged her today

me- hey how was that place? i was stuck somewhere else god it was shit! NEGATIVE. Your life is positive and exciting!! You were having too much fun and forgot to invite her!
her (instant reply)- it was empty, pretty shit! Only because she wasn't with you! So say it!
me- haha do u always go to those places? Questioning her bar choice? Especially after you met her at a bar? And the "always" implies that it was a shit night when you met her.
her (instant reply)- i only go cause my friends want me to go with them She's defensive, not a good sign.
me- yeah same, anyway we should meet up for a quite drink sometime when we're both not so drunk haha Not awful, but a kind of weak invite. It's a weird time to toss it in, and it doesn't give any plans that sound definitely fun. And it implies that you both got "too drunk." High value males don't do that unless they intend to, and girls don't like to be told that theyre too drunk.

then she didnt reply...is she playing hard to get or just not interested? either way ball's in her court now.

was that messaging ok? or could i have done better?

Cheers guys

Thanks for all the awesome feedback guys.

All points taken- don't get too drunk, be positive and make it out you're having fun! Don't remind the girl how wasted u or she was!!

I honestly think I'm a pretty cool guy and she sees that and that's pretty much the reason I left her in the first place cause she was sponging attention from other guys after we'd been hanging for a while maybe it wasn't her fault just too drunk! But I thought her loss not mine and left!

Anyway even though this case is probably a loss it's also a big win. I'm getting better and better at approaching and can actually hold a meaningful conversation with them.

I guess balls kinda in her court if she wants to meet she can take me up on my offer? In the meanwhile I'll move on the next victim!!