So today I went out with this HB7 from an online dating site, who's a few years older than me (I think she's 32 or something). We went to eat and then to a bar. The whole time she was kind of keeping a physical distance and was a bit shy maybe, but her eyes were showing some attraction (yeah, I don't know how I reached that conclusion) and the conversation was warmer. So anyway, I didn't do any kino, because she was always standing a bit far away and I think she was acting a "well mannered woman". Then we went to her car and hugged and I kissed her on her cheek and half a second later I pulled her and kissed her lips. I think she was into it. She said "I'm shy blah blah" and we paused and kissed for a few minutes and then she said she has to pick her sister and had to leave.
Two questions:
1. In this situation, do you think it's a good idea to ask her to go into her car and make out a bit more heavily? Given that she was shy, I think she definitely would've said no. Should I even think about what she's going to say or just go for it? I've pulled that before both successfully and unsuccessfully, so I was hesitant. Or should I just open the door and go in?
2. The tricky part. I'm leaving town for two months in 6 days and I want to attempt an f-close. I have a limited time frame, but I'll go for it, because after two months she most probably will forget me or find some other guy (she was on five dates in the last two weeks). I'll text her tomorrow with "this was sweet last night" and then "I want to see you again before I leave". I know the first one sounds cheesy, but she seems kind of the romantic/introverted/thinking type. My plan after that is to ask her to come somewhere near my place (one hour drive for her, which fucks up things logistically a bit
) and then I'll try to make her come home with me. Is there any other time tested routine that I can use?