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Author:  hardgainer [ Sun Aug 28, 2011 10:49 am ]
Post subject:  Need help!
This isn't really Day 2 or closing but the relationship forum requires 20 new posts and I really don't want to spam.

Umm so i've been gaming and everything on-and-off for the past 3-4 years and in that time have only had 4 partially-serious relationships. A real problem for me is allowing myself to get emotionally connected to someone because of past experiences. (which led me to pick-up in the first place).

So the story is that I was at a mate's house party last night with 100+ people. This girl that I used to be head over heels in love with was there and we ended up hooking up. The problem is that she has the same emotional barriers as I do and that was the only reason we didn't go out before.

So thoughts on what to do?

I see her everyday at school and I'm pretty much best friends with her best friend so we end up hanging out alot.

We're both commitment-phobes so we're hesistant to pursue something more but I just feel old feelings coming back and not even 50 HB 10s can help. Although that'd come pretty darn close haha.

Hardgainer.
Author:  Machete [ Mon Aug 29, 2011 8:17 am ]
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Is a casual relationship out of the question?

Cos that's not too hard, especially by the sound of this girl. You will need to be a certain age though. At least from my experience most girls aren't keen to start casual until around 20 or so. But that's me. If you're older than that then no problem.

Are you worried that you'll fall for her?

If so then there really isn't much you can do. I don't know anyone that can control their emotions. Just sarge her hard and make her fall for you if you're worried it will be one way. Tease her and be a tiny bit distant so she knows you're valuable.

I think this is a outside the rules of the forum, not sure, but there is a fair bit of research to indicate that regular orgasms can increase the likelihood of deep attraction forming.

Just the opinion of a gaming scientist...
Author:  hardgainer [ Mon Aug 29, 2011 1:13 pm ]
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Thanks for the reply

I don't really know if that's what I want from her at the present moment. I could develop a casual relationship with her but my inner AMOG will hate knowing that she'll be getting with other guys too. We're both 18 btw.

I really don't want to fall for her but the more I think about it, the more I want it to all work out. To be completely honest, running around with a billion women is starting to lose it's excitement (crazy I know).

Maybe I'll just sarge her hard like you said but she can read me like a book. One of the downsides to being close with a target I guess.

Life's hard :?
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