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Author:  Dream Hunter [ Fri Aug 12, 2011 2:44 am ]
Post subject:  I MUST KNOW A LOT OF NEGS AND IODs CUZ I'M TOO NICE
I don't feel right when I act assertive sometimes I can't even be one. I wanna know a lot of negs and ways to IOD the targets. All girls are world class champions at showing Indicators of Disinterest and I wanna become a master at being assertive and know how to neg properly. Any good suggestions?

Think of a tough guy biker, he won't pull none of that sensitive little kid shit when he talks to a hot woman. He clearly doesn't give a flying fuck. I wanna be like that.
Author:  0uch [ Fri Aug 12, 2011 2:57 am ]
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Your reading too much into pick up. Best thing you can do is BE YOUR BEST SELF. Girls are good at reading bullshiters.

You don't have to be an asshole to pick up women, unless of course you wanna attract low value girl. Be yourself, but you have to be ALPHA.
Author:  gabi4play [ Fri Aug 12, 2011 5:25 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I MUST KNOW A LOT OF NEGS AND IODs CUZ I'M TOO NICE
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I don't feel right when I act assertive sometimes I can't even be one. I wanna know a lot of negs and ways to IOD the targets. All girls are world class champions at showing Indicators of Disinterest and I wanna become a master at being assertive and know how to neg properly. Any good suggestions?

Think of a tough guy biker, he won't pull none of that sensitive little kid shit when he talks to a hot woman. He clearly doesn't give a flying fuck. I wanna be like that.
Why don't you try to leave the set or the girls,the first time when you are shwon an IOD.This usually keeps your confindence and you will not waste more time.
Author:  0uch [ Fri Aug 12, 2011 9:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I MUST KNOW A LOT OF NEGS AND IODs CUZ I'M TOO NICE
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I don't feel right when I act assertive sometimes I can't even be one. I wanna know a lot of negs and ways to IOD the targets. All girls are world class champions at showing Indicators of Disinterest and I wanna become a master at being assertive and know how to neg properly. Any good suggestions?

Think of a tough guy biker, he won't pull none of that sensitive little kid shit when he talks to a hot woman. He clearly doesn't give a flying fuck. I wanna be like that.
Why don't you try to leave the set or the girls,the first time when you are shwon an IOD.This usually keeps your confindence and you will not waste more time.

Your completely being a wimp doing that.
Author:  mens rea [ Fri Aug 12, 2011 10:09 am ]
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Allen my advice for you is as follows because I too am a "nice guy" and find it hard to neg girls. Think of it as follows. You are not really being mean when you throw a neg like "hey you have something on your nose." You are actually playing a game. There is nothing more to it than that. You are not being mean or being a jerk. You are simply equaling the playing fields. As a guy, when you approach a hot girl and her friend, they have the upper hand since you came up to them. What makes them so fuckin' special? Nothing. You are the prize Allen. You. Don't forget that. I'm not just blowing smoke up your ass either. You REALLY are the prize. You yourself said you are a nice guy; I'm sure you'd make a great boyfriend or lover to any one of those girls in front of you. So, with that said, screw them for AT FIRST thinking they are better than you just because you initiated the conversation.

In order to equal the playing fields and get them to respect you more in those initial 30 seconds when you introduce yourself, you MUST throw a neg to one and/or both of them to show that you could care less what she/they think of you. IT IS JUST A GAME. You are not being mean. You are simply getting them to realize that you too are worthwhile. Once you realize that they will APPRECIATE you more because of it you will begin to not feel bad for doing it.

That's all I can say. Think about it and then play it through in your head. Come up with some decent negs that aren't too mean, but are playful yet at the same time demonstrate that you don't give a fuck. Then you'll get it down.

Hope this helps.

-Mens Rea
Author:  P-Style [ Fri Aug 12, 2011 3:04 pm ]
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Check cajun on keys to the vip (it's on youtube) where he asks a girl whether he looks like a drug dealer. Listen to his voice tonality and observe his standing position. If showing desinterest is your goal, this is the way it's done.
Teasing girls is easy, just say what you think and remain calm as they may/will counterattack. People can only hurt you when you accept what they're saying to you.

Example:
I once teased a girl having an iphone. Couple weeks later I got one myself. She saying to me: "you've got your own iphone with you and you were teasing me with mine!" and I was like "Yeah, you're so right." in a calm tone. And that was it :)
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