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| Author: | Trickster540 [ Thu Aug 11, 2011 11:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I dont do this ever, i Gave a random girl my number and now? |
I have no experience picking up girls, i just tried and went and talked to her and it turned into something. Okay, a week ago i went out to a restaurant with some of the boys for breakfast. Just expecting a nice breakfast cause I've never been there before, and i heard that it was pretty good, anyways... There was a girl who greeted and seated us. She was pretty cute, but i didn't think to much of it. So we all were seated and ate. During our meal i would occaionally look over at the cute girl and i would catch her looking at me. After we were done eating, and my friends had the right amount of cash for there meals, i had to wait for change....our waitress was being dumb and taking 10-15 min to come over for change for me. I got tired of waiting and we had other plans to attend, so i went up to the cute girl and just told her that i had been waiting. So in the end i got my change and i said good bye, not to my waitress but to the cute girl. As stupid as this sounds, i felt a connection and in that moment i thought i should have given her my number because i just got that sorta vibe, but i sadly didnt. A week after i went there again for breakfast with just one of my other friends and she was there again. She had again seated us, and was very friendly. She kept walking by and my friend told me that i had to talk to her today. So after we had eaten, he paid first and left out the door to give me space. This was it, i had just finished paying and she was cleaning the table. I went up and just said hey and introduced myself. She said "Hey, you've come in here a few times with your friends" and after that we had a small conversation and after it died down i just asked her out to some coffee, she was down, but she had to seat some other customers. while she went to do that, i went up to another waitress and asked for a pen to write my number down. When i went back to give it to her, she had her number written with her name for me already, i just gave her mine and said ill talk to you later and she was smiling. So the day after she had texted me saying "Hey sorry for not texting you, hope there isn't any hard feelings" and i responded with " no hard feelings at all, whats up?" We talked for a little bit about her work and how she was exhausted from working. When she was done work she texted me asking she was gonna nap and maybe talking after. I said that was okay. That was yesterday at 4, she hasn't texted me or anything. I messaged her today as stupid as i am just saying " Hey, hows working going? Did you want to go for coffee if your free later?" and still no response. So my question is, whats going on? Is she playing hard to get? or just being mysterious? what does everyone think, i would love to know...its driving me crazy, but I'm trying to keep cool. |
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| Author: | Datguy [ Fri Aug 12, 2011 2:24 am ] |
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Your last msg was just today? Then just wait, i know how it feels at first, always eager to go ahead and text her as quickly as possible. Neverless, there's no hurry, always remember that. Never be the one who chases the other person, ever. |
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| Author: | Engray [ Fri Aug 12, 2011 5:06 pm ] |
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You should keep your cool and just wait for her to send an answer. Don't be that chasing guy becuase if you dogs after her she will notice that you are just an annoying guy. You don't want her to think that. If she wont answer within 48 hours just go back to the restaurant and hope that she will be there. If she is there just keep your cool and let her come to you. |
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| Author: | Trickster540 [ Fri Aug 12, 2011 9:36 pm ] |
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Thanks for the response, i do appreciate it I haven't texted her, and she still hasn't said nothing to me. Her last message was still sent on Wednesday saying that she was gonna nap and asking to talk after. i just don't understand because she seemed to want to message me the day after she got my number. I plan to go in there next week and if shes there to seat me, ill just say hey whats up, and see were it turns to |
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| Author: | Fvckitimout [ Fri Aug 12, 2011 10:06 pm ] |
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Dont go there again. Seriously hired guns do that. They would lead a guy on just so they would keep coming back to their resto. Dont go back. Seriously your gonna look like a fool chasing after her spending money on things you dont really want to do. Give her some benefit of a doubt and when its still too ambiguous, call her up and ask her whats the deal. Beating around the bush too much is a DLV, too scared of getting hurt? Fuck that. |
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| Author: | Ownsick [ Sat Aug 13, 2011 1:08 am ] |
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either wait for her response or do as Fvckitimout said... either way, you have to make her qualify to you. You're just trying too hard, DON'T EVER! And don't let your talk "die" as you said.. just change to another topic/routine when the other subject is High. 
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| Author: | Mindgamez [ Sun Aug 14, 2011 1:06 pm ] |
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Like Fvckitimout said, it might be some trick to get yourself to come back to the resto... I remember that girl at the amusement park was selling things, giving me the sexy eyebrows and smile. It was maybe just for the money lool. Anyway, just be careful and see if she tries to ask you for buying stuff or something! Maybe you should go to another resto or something, and if she says yes well that's good. |
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