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| Author: | RePete [ Sat Aug 06, 2011 4:16 pm ] |
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So we all know the bar scene, loud deafening music, girls dancing, lots of alcohol consumption. Normally for me in this bar i'll go in with some friends, get some beers, walk around and talk to any other people I might know and then just sit back and chill. Occasionally I will have girls come up and talk to me and we'll proceed to dance (which I am horrible at) and i'll start a convo that turns out into a yelling match due to the loud music and then thats about it. I might get a number here and there but most of the time, no. So in my frustration I purchased "The Game", started browsing online and decided to try out the little I know last night. Group of 4 girls walk in get some drinks and start dancing with each other, I pick the target and wait for a good opportunity. Target goes to bar to purchase another drink, I walk up on her left and ask "can I buy you a drink", target says "yes" and I say "well do you have 5 bucks". The girl laughs and then leans on me and then I was clueless. We exchanged names and i asked about her friends and told her mine. Pretty terrible yes I know. Should I have tried ESP? another opener? Should I have even asked for her name? All help and criticism is accepted. |
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| Author: | DomJ87 [ Sat Aug 06, 2011 6:28 pm ] |
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First off, that's such a simple and awesome opener I'm gonna have to try it out tonight. Personally, I would have continued the interaction by offering my name and a hand. Just a simple genuine introduction, figure out what to call her etc. But i would let the hand shake linger while locking her in with some confident eye contact. This would help me build a foundation for sexual suggestion. As the night progresses and you talk to her several more times you can step up how and where you touch her and as long as you're confident about what you do it'll be ok because you already "touched her" earlier. I did just that last night when I met this cute little girl at bar. I talked with her several times but during the first contact I was sure to touch her hand and lock in her eyes for just a couple seconds. It creates sexual tension. A little later in the night when I approached her to talk a little bit more I actually came up right next to her, so close that I was only a couple inches from her. I took my hand and normally I would have placed it on the small of her back but instead just laid it right on her butt. Guess what though, she was perfectly ok with that because she was comfortable with the idea of me touching her. |
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| Author: | RePete [ Sat Aug 06, 2011 10:36 pm ] |
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Thanks for the reply Dom. Yeah I played it out over in my head again about what I could have done. Next time I will take your advice and maybe after she laughs add in "nice to see a sense of humor with a cute face" or something. I guess after the opening I would go back to my friends and later on dance with her and just go from there. |
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| Author: | DanVonDanger [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 5:40 pm ] |
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Firstly as you're new to this PUA style, I commend your opening. (the only problem with that opener is if the girl tells you to F**k off before you you get the the punch line of it!). But it just seemed that you lost where to go after opening and that is perfectly normal. Just read up/practise teasing and stacking and you'll get there  Maybe you could have told her she seemed fun... and then go into a bit of teasing and so on. |
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| Author: | 0uch [ Tue Aug 09, 2011 9:18 am ] |
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lol, that's a really funny opener! |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Wed Aug 10, 2011 5:45 am ] |
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wowow! that was tight...me like it! but i would not approach a girl when they are buying drinks, there is too much distraction, you, her, bar tender... bad for logistics.. |
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| Author: | Discipline [ Wed Aug 10, 2011 11:36 am ] |
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Great opener! Just continue talking about her friends, and after you have talked about that, claim that she seems to be the "x"of the group. (for example: if she seems to be the quiet one, claim that she is the complete opposite. she will defend herself, which gives you even more room to tease and flirt) |
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| Author: | Dark_Flame [ Wed Aug 10, 2011 3:23 pm ] |
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Good one ^^ Definitely a good opener to go with at a bar! Next time I'd follow with what Dan said, go with a bit of light teasing. "Pffft that's a girls drink!" If she pulls out that she is in fact a girl then say "Well that gives you a good idea of what half of the guys in here are like doesn't it" *point out in a random direction to a guy with a similar drink* Only one tip I can offer with nightclub game, can't quote the source as I honestly can't remember but never go 'bobbing', if she can't hear you then don't suddenly lean into her to talk into her ear. Make sure your the rock who's standing still and she's the one leaning into you to hear what your saying or talking into your ear. Just do this by tilting your head slightly so your ear is facing her and beckoning with a 'come hither' motion with your finger. Works wonders 
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