thanks for the advice
i never though AA would be my problem just stringing everything together like second nature is my sticking point but im only new to this!thanks again
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| Author: | henry360 [ Thu Aug 04, 2011 2:48 am ] |
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ok so Im new to this right... tonight was the first time EVER i have approached many girls in a single night... my general convo went like this... hey i need your opinion on something... blah blah... sometimes it was do u believe in magic spells... sometimes it was something i made up like do u think men wearing boots makes them look camp coz i said that to my mate but hes pulling girls left right and centre... and others... then id shake hands and id say u got a strong grip this means you are confident and gave them tips e.g do that in an interview and the interviewer will know u mean buisness... and then theyd tell me their name... 3 girls that night told me their name was natalie so i negged that saying oh thats a common name im hearing that alot... but they seemed a bit insulted lol... i playfully guessed what they did for a living and said u look like u work in mcdonalds... this brough a smile more times then not... then we got in a general convo i said ur pretty but dnt get a big head now... i also said you are friendly which im suprised about u seemd to have a stressed face when i spoke to u at first... it didnt lead to anything though... i asked for a girls facebook and she said thanks for asking but i gotta go back to my friends critique it please! |
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| Author: | marmar [ Thu Aug 04, 2011 6:55 am ] |
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check your body language are you implying that you are a dominant (but not to the point of a creeper like) person? did your game seem rehearsed? were the girls actually paying attention if not change your subject also remember to pile on kino and push pull seduction and relate your intentions in your game also its better to get numbers and end the conversation early before you bore the girls to set up a day 2 (hey i you gotta fly blah blah some type of sentence that implies your short on time and ask her for her number DON'T SOUND NEEDY!) but above all don't be discouraged it happens to us all game on |
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| Author: | henry360 [ Thu Aug 04, 2011 10:28 am ] |
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i dont think i was being overly dominant.. i was making the girls laugh and there was some sort of kino going on.. i did FTC but i think i have to get that point across more... when im negging maybe i wasnt smiling enough and tbh i think when i said natalie is a common name mayb that was too harsh lol thanks for your reply, at least i didnt freeze and have AA so theres always an upside |
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| Author: | Crimsonian [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 8:07 am ] |
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For a first approach, it seemed pretty good. No need to over-critique it, sounds like overall you did the basics right. All you need is some more experience to smooth out the rough edges. For example, instead of just negging Natalie on her name being common, employ some cold reading. Tell her, "You look like a [insert unusual name here- personally, I like Mildred]." She'll ask why, and just have fun with it. If you're doing it right, she'll start qualifying herself to you. Best of luck on future approaches! Getting over the AA is the hardest part, looks like you're well on your way to conquering it. |
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| Author: | henry360 [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 12:31 pm ] |
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thanks for the advice i never though AA would be my problem just stringing everything together like second nature is my sticking point but im only new to this!thanks again |
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| Author: | WildBill89 [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 1:13 pm ] |
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Sounds like you did well, especially for a first approach; perhaps you should have put a false time constraint in there. Before they get a chance to go away or get bored, say "anyway, I better go catch my friends" or something like that. Then go back for the number or Facebook later on. This shows that you're being social by branching into separate groups (your friends and these girls) and it also allows you to have the last word and are important somewhere else. What were their responses to the men wearing boots question? No matter the answer, It would have been good to playfully neg them on that; it's good for spotting IOIs. |
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| Author: | DanVonDanger [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 5:47 pm ] |
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Hey buddy seems like you did a good job on the approach It seems from reading it that you didn't get into A3 before you tried to get her facebook (getting her to qualify herself to you), you probably asked it too soon as far as I can gather, but don't worry about it, it's practise for the next! |
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| Author: | henry360 [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 5:50 pm ] |
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hey yeh it was ok for my first approach things can only get better... how do i get her to wualify herself to me without sounding like im interviewing her... if i said 'you are pretty but everyone is pretty these days, what 3 things would you say about yourself that seperates you from the rest...' that sounds like an interview question thanks for your opinion also! |
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