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Ok im not being racist or anything but we black guys can have a more difficult time picking up. Theres certain standards i feel we have to meet as black guys due to positive stereotypes of black people, at least for initial approaching; afterwards you can be as relaxed as you want but first impressions are a different thing for us. To a white chick we need to live up to the image of "cool black guy." Cool Black Guy is smooth as The old spice guy but a little hardcore like Lil Wayne. but with a positive mindset CBG also is educated but with enough ghetto in him to prove he endured hardship. He also is kobe on the court, reggie wayne on the feild and mandingo in the sack.

then if we go after a black girl with stuff from the game they will look at us funny. as a guy who's only dated black girls i can tell you 100% that this shit WILL NOT WORK on black girls from the most hoodrat shaniqua to ms. double major howard soul sista. we have to come off to them as that dude at the Phi Beta Sigma house party. Smooth likr trey songs possible a singer like him as well. Always appearin like all you do is play ball workout and shop for new jordans.

see theres a image we have to live up to as black guys and this community shit wont work on anybody am i right or am i wrong

Author:	cj090 [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 5:22 pm ]
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Ok im not being racist or anything but we black guys can have a more difficult time picking up. Theres certain standards i feel we have to meet as black guys due to positive stereotypes of black people, at least for initial approaching; afterwards you can be as relaxed as you want but first impressions are a different thing for us. To a white chick we need to live up to the image of "cool black guy." Cool Black Guy is smooth as The old spice guy but a little hardcore like Lil Wayne. but with a positive mindset CBG also is educated but with enough ghetto in him to prove he endured hardship. He also is kobe on the court, reggie wayne on the feild and mandingo in the sack. then if we go after a black girl with stuff from the game they will look at us funny. as a guy who's only dated black girls i can tell you 100% that this shit WILL NOT WORK on black girls from the most hoodrat shaniqua to ms. double major howard soul sista. we have to come off to them as that dude at the Phi Beta Sigma house party. Smooth likr trey songs possible a singer like him as well. Always appearin like all you do is play ball workout and shop for new jordans. see theres a image we have to live up to as black guys and this community shit wont work on anybody am i right or am i wrong

Author:	Abdul-aAfc [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 12:42 am ]
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Haha, as a black guy you are kinda right. Sometimes I feel like the pu is a bit soft. If you catch my drift. I like to be quick, grab the pussy and get out. Some is still effective just have to tailor it to fit.

Author:	H!j!nx [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 10:54 pm ]
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Great post. I've read lots of books and seen lots of videos, and I've basically come around to my style. A lot like gunwitch method / meets juggler's stuff. I enjoy an actual conversation, and I'm a comedian, so I can naturally keep it funny with off the cuff stuff. At the same time though, direct eye contact, like I'm speaking through her, or to something within her. I've mostly talked with black girls, and everybody enjoys somebody that takes them away from their day-to-day routine

Author:	KennyShizzle [ Wed Aug 10, 2011 5:26 pm ]
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Lol this is too true. Being an attractive black male, I realized that I can get away with a lot due to the fact that I am an attractive black male. Where I live the black girls are "white washed" but 20 minutes down town and thats where all the REAL black girls are, you can game hard on them and they won't think anything of it. The "Real black girls" will throw you to the curb if your not confident, cheesy @opening, awkward, do not maintain eye contact, boring, etc. So if you can game these type of girls its easy to game the "white girls" lol.

Author:	Habitual Jerk [ Thu Aug 11, 2011 7:18 pm ]
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Quote: Ok im not being racist or anything but we black guys can have a more difficult time picking up. Theres certain standards i feel we have to meet as black guys due to positive stereotypes of black people, at least for initial approaching; afterwards you can be as relaxed as you want but first impressions are a different thing for us. To a white chick we need to live up to the image of "cool black guy." Cool Black Guy is smooth as The old spice guy but a little hardcore like Lil Wayne. but with a positive mindset CBG also is educated but with enough ghetto in him to prove he endured hardship. He also is kobe on the court, reggie wayne on the feild and mandingo in the sack. then if we go after a black girl with stuff from the game they will look at us funny. as a guy who's only dated black girls i can tell you 100% that this shit WILL NOT WORK on black girls from the most hoodrat shaniqua to ms. double major howard soul sista. we have to come off to them as that dude at the Phi Beta Sigma house party. Smooth likr trey songs possible a singer like him as well. Always appearin like all you do is play ball workout and shop for new jordans. see theres a image we have to live up to as black guys and this community shit wont work on anybody am i right or am i wrong This is a mental block. You need to get rid of it to be successful with pickup. You dont have to live up to any image as a black guy. Do You. I'm white and have been with more black and hispanic girls than white ones. Even some "ghetto" ones. I suppose its mainly because most of my friends are black or hispanic and those are just the type of girls im more comfortable around. The thing is I dont try to mold myself into any particular "type" that I think certain girls will like. I just do me. I have a job, I go to the gym, Im always down to learn or try new things, I'm confident, etc... My point is to just strive to be your best self and girls will pick up on that regardless of race. Also understand that not every girl is as intelligent as you and I. Some of them are happy with bullshit guys. They're loss, not ours. And Im not saying go out and use openers from the Mystery Method or something. A lot of black chicks will @ u like ur crazy if you tell them some of that shit. But I think the principals of what those guys teach apply pretty well to any race. Just my 2cents

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Author:	supacudi [ Wed Aug 24, 2011 5:47 am ]
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i have to agree. Half of this stuff on this forum wont work on a "Real Black Girl" aha i should know.

Author:	TexasColin [ Sun Aug 28, 2011 3:44 pm ]
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I somewhat disagree with the OP. Just the other day I was at the DMV (Department of Motor Vehicles for those outside of the U.S.) and I was sitting next to a black chick while I waited for my number to be called. I'm a white guy, and personally I am not into black chicks. But there was another black guy there who ran some perfect game on the chick sitting next to me. He had a super confident frame and all he did was simply walk over to her and said "Hi, my name is Xavier" with an air of expectation that she would introduce herself back. She didn't. She ignored him instead. But that didn't phase the guy at all. He simply sat down next to her and negged her a few times and she started talking. To pass the time, he gets her to play a game of hang man, and when the puzzle is solved it spells "What is your name?". So she repsonds by playing another game of hangman where the answser to the puzzle is her name. They go back and forth with games of hangman for a while, and then one of the his puzzles he has the girl solve is "What is your number?". At this point she has very much opened up to the guy and she gives him her number. At one point she shit tested him by making it sound like he should go to the gas station and get a snack for it. He passed it by pretending like he didn't hear it.

Author:	Lionheart213 [ Sun Aug 28, 2011 8:47 pm ]
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This is a Replay from another person on here that had this same problem so I decided to just repost my answer, being that i'm a black guy and very successful Pimp/PUA. ---------- I used to think the same thing. But I have found skin color does not really matter too much now days. Maybe 20 or 30 yrs back it did. But these days.. girls of other races besides ours are into black guys. In other words.... "Black is In" ha ha ha. Since society likes to follow suit to T.V. especially over here in the US. Being a black man now days and dating other races is easier because of people like the President, High Profile Rappers and Singers and even Actors right now that are black men. It shows them that we can also be rich, smart and powerful just like any other male figuar in this society. Females in general are looking for that Alpha Male no matter what. And as long as you know this. Any girl from any race is game. I've never had many obstacles at getting with any race of girl because of my skin color. If I feel they might be a little timid. I bring it out front in the beginning. When you do that they will be almost embarrassed or shameful for even thinking the negative stereo type they have heard about black men. For example I might break the ice with a question to the girl I think is timid by me, lets say she a Asian girl. I might say, hey girl I got a question. Why is it that most Asian guys are very good at break dancing or Djing??? Maybe when we were babies, they put black babies with Asian babies in the same room. And before our parents came to pick us up. We taught each other some rhythm... LOL !!!! That line will always get her laughing. After that, all you have to do is keep talking about the subject in a funny joking way. Since you say you are on the darker scale. You can also say. Hey... did you know they did research on attraction and found out that the races that were mixed tended to get jobs faster are more trust worthy and attractive than if they were just straight white, Asian, or black. So what do you think? Wanna try to make the next Kimora Simmons? LOL! Stuff like this breaks the ice real fast and then they just start liking you as a person and an Alpha Man than just some random black guy. Don't make judgements about yourself. Don't tell yourself.. I don't think I can get that girl because i'm too dark or i'm too light or i'm too short or too tall. When you do that, you basically just lost her in your mind already. And it's gonna show. Females are very very observant. So when you feel like you not the shit, they basically can sense it. And what female wants to be with a man who is not sure of himself? By bringing the problem out front, it's easier to deal with it and get pass it and move on to the next step. I wrote in another post about a guy I used to know who had a big nose. He basically proved this same issue. For him it was his nose and for you it's your skin. Once you get past that point, you can then focus on the more interesting subjects which will then be about her. I have black girls, white girls, Indian girls, Spanish girls.... they all the same with culture differences. They all see past my color now. They love the guy inside.

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