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| Author: | zerocool [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 10:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to be magnetic and not give a shit what others think |
Its all about ambition, game will always ask u to give up (so that only those who deserve stay/reach the top) HUMILIATION is the key to success -approach as many approaches till the time u r not scared of getting humiliated or rejected (i felt humiliated a lot a times and is still scared of getting humilliated )once u don't have the fear of humiliation u start to respect, believe and love yourself .The way u treat yourself others will treat u in the same way.When u seek validation from others it depends on them to approve or reject u, which means they have value and u don't and nobody wants you to be better than themself If u fear people who r with u will leave u if u humiliate yourself, just means that your are alone anyways, people want to be aroud those who are mentally strong and happy and make them feel safe and happy Get humiliated on daily basis its good for u ,after sometime you won't give shit to anything and then u will be the man everyone wants to be with, even those who made fun of you (NOBODY REMEMBERS WHAT U WERE, AS THEY ARE JUST INTERESTED IN WHO U R NOW) eg- would u care if a super hot babe was 100kg ,wore braces and was ugly as shit ,no u will be attracted to her even after knowing her past |
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| Author: | #1 Jish [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 11:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to be magnetic and not give a shit what others think |
Quote: Its all about ambition, game will always ask u to give up (so that only those who deserve stay/reach the top)
Get humiliated on a daily basis? haha you make me laugh. a quick definitionHUMILIATION is the key to success -approach as many approaches till the time u r not scared of getting humiliated or rejected (i felt humiliated a lot a times and is still scared of getting humilliated )once u don't have the fear of humiliation u start to respect, believe and love yourself .The way u treat yourself others will treat u in the same way.When u seek validation from others it depends on them to approve or reject u, which means they have value and u don't and nobody wants you to be better than themself If u fear people who r with u will leave u if u humiliate yourself, just means that your are alone anyways, people want to be aroud those who are mentally strong and happy and make them feel safe and happy Get humiliated on daily basis its good for u ,after sometime you won't give shit to anything and then u will be the man everyone wants to be with, even those who made fun of you (NOBODY REMEMBERS WHAT U WERE, AS THEY ARE JUST INTERESTED IN WHO U R NOW) eg- would u care if a super hot babe was 100kg ,wore braces and was ugly as shit ,no u will be attracted to her even after knowing her past Humiliation (also called stultification) is the abasement (belittling or degrading) of pride , which creates mortification (a feeling of shame or lost pride) or leads to a state of being humbled or reduced to lowliness or submission. A better approach would be to take all the lessons you can from your experiences. don't get me wrong i can see exactly where you are coming from but humiliation is a very negative thing and should not be associated with success so rather than trying to desensitize yourself to humiliation work on doing things that give you the same result in a positive way |
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| Author: | Mr Archer [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 2:06 pm ] |
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The subject line is a bit misleading, but you're on the right track. You shouldn't go out with the intent of humiliating yourself, that's a bit ridiculous. Instead, try not to expect things. The amount of pressure you put on yourself going up to some girl and thinking you've got to get a kiss or a lay or whatever is enough to sabotage the whole approach. Most guys will not approach because they expect rejection. The whole point of going up to lots of girls and getting rejected a few times is not to desensitize you so much as get you to realize getting rejected isn't the end of the world. On top of this, if you aren't expecting anything from some girl that ends up snubbing you, it's really not going to be the end of the world. As for being magnetic, I find the less you worry about what people think of what you say, the more they seem to like you. I guess I pretty much agree, just watch the wording. Otherwise we'll probably get some guys dropping their pants at a club trying to out humiliate each other or something. |
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