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Author:  Mr. AOTR [ Wed Jul 27, 2011 6:57 am ]
Post subject:  DEVELOPING MY OWN COLLECTION OF OPENERS

I've realized something about my game, and it's that I rock when I'm one on one with a girl, but when it comes to groups (specially mixed groups) I'm a complete wreck, so I decided to start developing my own set of openers, and I will focus on group openers.

My strongest pro is that I always have conversations for one on one, so maybe I need to get some openers and topics adecuate for bars and clubs, so I'll remain focused on that! For instance, I was browsing on the opernes section and found one that I think completelly goes with my personality:
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FASHION TIP (Kooper)
I think this is highly underrated.

Just go up and just tell them how they would look EVEN BETTER to you. "Wear your hair open", "open that up one more button", or just fix their clothes. tell her what would look amazing on her.

Train your eye to look for imperfections and what to do against them. For the clueless, get two-dozen model magazines and look through the pictures SEVERAL times so you get some idea. Try to make up negs for these girls and point out what would look better on them (the model magazine idea is cro_badboy´s)

This sets an interesting frame. first of all, you are teaching her how to please you, if she reacts well, praise her for being a good puppy. Second, it is obvious that you are the prize, that you have standards and that you know what you want.

Women love the idea of seducing you, you just gotta teach them HOW and they will comply.

This is *not* delivered playful or c&f or anything, just a genuine comment.

From there, it's easy to launch right into a routine (for example you can talk about what and how much clothes say about people and cold-read her right there. whatever you want.)
collection-of-pua-openers-and-add-yours-vt8124.html

Author:  Mr. AOTR [ Wed Jul 27, 2011 7:00 am ]
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Another one that might get useful is this:
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FEMALE ROOMMATES (Tenmagnet and TylerDurden)
I've been offered this *SWEET* place in (x place).. I want to live there, *BUT*..... I have to live with FOUR girls. Like *FOUR*. I'm going to get 4 times the boyfriend complaints; I'll never get in the fucking bathroom... I'm gonna have to start showering at the truck stop, and you KNOW they're gonna synchronize. (Smile knowingly) Heck, I'll probably start *MY* period. I'm going to have to leave the house for 5 days a month!

Did you know that's why primitive civilizations developed camping? All the women in the tribe would synchronize and the guys would look up at the moon and be like "The antelope are moving now, we must HUNT".

Also... living with all those girls, I could get RAPED. Did you know that 95% of guys that get date raped commit suicide in 6 months? Girls are such sexual predators... (sexual predator routine stuff below)."
Here's another that I think I can pull off:
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INTRODUCTION OPENER (ijjjji)
PUA: (grab unsuspecting SHB by the arm and point at a random dude) "OMG, that guy is PERFECT for you - let me introduce you!!" (start moving towards the guy)

SHB: What?! No.. NONONO.. haha.. Help!

PUA: (to guy) This girl is so shy, but she really wanted to meet you!

SHB: (Giggeling hysterically) Nonono... its not true!(Fleeing)

PUA: Awww come on.. don't be shy..

Both girls were very hot and totally stuck up before I did this. Both of them came back and talked to me several times during the evening, to tell me how crazy I was...

Author:  Mr. AOTR [ Wed Jul 27, 2011 7:07 am ]
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And just a cherry on the top:
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PICKING UP CHICKS (sledge)
Just open with "Hi, we're picking up chicks". its C&F

Author:  0uch [ Wed Jul 27, 2011 9:11 am ]
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don't memorize too many openers. It will do more harm then good. Just memorize about 1 or 2.

Author:  Mr. AOTR [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 5:11 am ]
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don't memorize too many openers. It will do more harm then good. Just memorize about 1 or 2.
Certainly.

I just found those, they seem to fit with my style and personaliity and I might field test them over this weekend. Besides I'm not the memorizing kind, so I just go for a few of them, work on my attittude, and give the girls something to talk about...

Author:  Vitamin-J [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 8:43 am ]
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I hate, hate, hate canned opener, they're limiting and don't feel natural. if they work for you, best of luck but I recommend just talking to people, your convo's go smoother and multi threading is easier.




Best of luck

Author:  Mr. AOTR [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 2:46 pm ]
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Thanks for the hint, I don't want to sound scripted or anything like that, all I want is to keep some material to open a set just in case I feel like scrambling things around!

Author:  Vitamin-J [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 12:11 am ]
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always a good idea


Good luck out there

Author:  Mr. AOTR [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 3:58 am ]
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Same for you! thanks for the attitude!!

Author:  Mr. AOTR [ Thu Aug 04, 2011 4:08 am ]
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Guess my best opener will always be "can I have your opinion on something?"

Author:  henry360 [ Thu Aug 04, 2011 3:44 pm ]
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yeh i tend to make up my own openers also... a good one i use is...

what do you think of guys wearing boots? do you think its camp? because i said that to my friend who is wearing boots out and hes pulling girls left right and centre...

and then take it from there

Author:  Mr. AOTR [ Thu Aug 04, 2011 3:50 pm ]
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yeh i tend to make up my own openers also... a good one i use is...

what do you think of guys wearing boots? do you think its camp? because i said that to my friend who is wearing boots out and hes pulling girls left right and centre...

and then take it from there
Thanks for the hint! I'll give it a shot sometime!

Author:  Oresa [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 12:48 am ]
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I dont use prepared openers ... just say stuff based on the place your in ...
" have you seen that event over there " , "me and my friends heard about this cool party have you heard about it and etc "...(than dhv after that )

Thinking about an opener so much like in this fourm , it's ridiculous.. opening doesnt mean anything .

Author:  Mr. AOTR [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 5:05 am ]
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I dont use prepared openers ... just say stuff based on the place your in ...
" have you seen that event over there " , "me and my friends heard about this cool party have you heard about it and etc "...(than dhv after that )

Thinking about an opener so much like in this fourm , it's ridiculous.. opening doesnt mean anything .
Good to know, but I'd rather get to know more and learn how to apply it than not, and if it involves reading other people's experiencies, well that's just welcome for me! And even if that doesn't mean anything for you it might mean something for me, ever thought about that?

Author:  Mightyy [ Sat Aug 06, 2011 1:20 pm ]
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I hate, hate, hate canned opener, they're limiting and don't feel natural. if they work for you, best of luck but I recommend just talking to people, your convo's go smoother and multi threading is easier.




Best of luck

i dont agree,
how creative and unique could you be if you don't have a canned opener ??

CANNED means you made it sound as NATURAL and as a habit,
try em ;)

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