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| Author: | nashnewbie [ Thu Jul 14, 2011 1:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Giving attention to target's friends & interest... |
Hey all, quick question: When you're in a set and your wing is distracting the target's friends and you've built a decent amount of rapport with your target - how much attention do you give to the friends at the expense of the target? Example of what I mean: Opened a three set a few nights ago. Started talking to my target while my friend occupied her two friends, continued to kino escalate and got iois. Wing kind of left set so I had to pull him back into speaking to her friends... but then I also began threads with the other two girls. When I did this, my target began to dance and such... I assumed to re-engage my interest. How should this situation be handled? Should the target be ignored for a minute or resumed? |
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| Author: | Slip n Slide [ Thu Jul 14, 2011 6:19 am ] |
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Ideally you would say something to her to keep her involved just before she lost interest. If she physically walked away to dance, I'd say ignore for a minute, bring her friends with you when you reopen. If she started dancing close to you, she may just be trying to get your attention, give her some and escalate. |
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| Author: | nashnewbie [ Thu Jul 14, 2011 11:41 am ] |
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Yeah, she just started dancing next to me while I talked to her friends. I assumed it was an attempt to re-gain my interest. I'll keep this in mind for a similar situation. |
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