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| Author: | Kirin [ Fri Jun 24, 2011 1:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Line between being confident and being needy |
So I got a question for the more experienced puas here. Where is the line between going for a girl and looking too needy. Like once you get to know the girl, how strong do I need to come off before it looks like I'm one of those guys who thinks she's a oneitius type. I'm having a hard time finding the point between expressing that I want to have something more than a friendship but not so much as I will keep following her like a puppy. Not sure if that made sense ^ Basically how much do I ignore her to DHV but giving her enough attention to show that I want to be more than friends. |
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| Author: | tactik [ Fri Jun 24, 2011 7:07 am ] |
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If you are really confident, you are not at all needy... That being said, confidence doesn't mean that you are constantly calling her/wanting to do something. Confidence is, having the ability NOT to call her and give her some time before you get into contact her(absence makes the hard grow fonder), and not always asking to do something when you ARE talking to her. If you go for a kiss, she doesn't want to, and you complain, that is needy, if you don't complain give her a cold shoulder(walk a bit fast) keep your body less focused towards here, then you are showing you got balls. You should let her text you, if it takes more than 4 or 5 days, then text her something like "become a hermit have we?" If you want to make it clear that you want more than friends, then make it clear with kino, and neg + compilments "You look hot as fuck in that red dress, definitely need to wear it more then your other stuff" |
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