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| Author: | Alphapua88 [ Sat May 28, 2011 9:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | This just sucks... |
Where to start... Here's what's happening... There was a girl I had a big crush on when I was 16. Now... I have never talked to her before, but last night my friend had a bday dinner.. And she was there!! Right in front of me... She is a hb9 for sure~ I'll tell u the worst bit... I couldn't talk to her at all at the start... Had to get a few drinks in me before I started talking to her!! But still no gaming.. Just day to day stuff. I'm hating life right now!! Once in a life time opportunity and I f'd it.. When she was leavin I gave her a hug and everything but.. No number close. I need all the help I can get T.T She's got FB. didn't add her or anything though.. Any other girl i woulda tried something but this 1 I just couldn't do it!! Seeking help from my pua bible!! Lol Edit: btw I'm 21now... Lol |
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| Author: | Validus [ Sat May 28, 2011 10:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: This just sucks... |
Quote: Where to start...
Why can't your friend have another party and invite her?
Now... I have never talked to her before, but last night my friend had a bday dinner.. |
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| Author: | magnum11 [ Sat May 28, 2011 11:27 pm ] |
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add her on fb and be like it was great seeing you the other night we should exchange numbers so we can hang out again |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Sun May 29, 2011 7:40 pm ] |
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Dude friend request her on FB and add a personal note. "You were hell of a lot of fun the other night".  Once you have her as a friend wait a day or so then send her some RANDOM funny text so start a convo. Obviously if she chats you then Game On! Good luck... |
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| Author: | Healz [ Sun May 29, 2011 8:12 pm ] |
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Yup...I say FB too. Even use an opener like: "Do you know, the first time I logged onto FB after that party your profile popped up on 'people you may know'. Talk about coincidence....." Good luck mate. Let us know how it pans out. 
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| Author: | Mantis- [ Sun May 29, 2011 8:19 pm ] |
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What everyone said, fb it is. |
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| Author: | Alphapua88 [ Mon May 30, 2011 9:00 pm ] |
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Ok thanks guys.. I'm going to add her on FB!! Haha I should Inbox her huh? Not post on her wall? |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Thu Jun 02, 2011 3:55 am ] |
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Correct, dont place it on her wall.... |
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| Author: | cspears01 [ Thu Jun 02, 2011 4:09 am ] |
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add her on fb and use the shy opener |
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| Author: | cedius [ Thu Jun 02, 2011 4:34 am ] |
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I vote FB as well with a side note...use this as a launching pad to other girls you may run into or may have this effect on you in the future...start getting used to talking to girls like they are just...what they are....GIRLS...they aren't godesses but we make them out to be at times and of some of the hottest girls I have met...they are just cool, down to earth amazing people...get used to it...your 21...you have a long ways to go and you might as well start now rather than later...Trust me! Good luck! |
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| Author: | Alphapua88 [ Wed Jun 08, 2011 12:27 am ] |
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Quote: add her on fb and use the shy opener
What's he shy opener?? xD
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| Author: | welldonerahh [ Wed Jun 08, 2011 6:44 am ] |
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If i was on your shoe... Well, i wouldn't add her in FB YET! But, I'll wait for another chance or anytime we get to meet each other again without even knowing it. Maybe a friend's party, the mall, or anywhere. Why? Because it will feel like you haven't meet again for a long time, and she will feel like talking to you again. Let's say you met her again at a friend's party, so she sees you, you see her, give her a bit of an eye contact and with a smile. So she senses your confidence this time and that she knows you know wanna talk to her. Then, talk to her about how she been (don't game her) and how long you haven't seen each other, right when you talk about that. Say something like, "we should hang out sometime, i have this secret cool spot somewhere around the beach,(then pause for a while, then change your voice tonality into a smooth and calm tone) you know feel the breeze under the coconut tree and watch the sunset." Just create your own, and when you do this make sure that you say it like you are really at that place. Describe the feeling, the details of the spot where you wanna take her. So she agrees to hang out with you sometime. And then say something like, " and by the way just write down your digits on my phone(with a playful voice)." The point to this that you are not asking for her number but she's giving you her own. By doing that, you are controlling the frame and men needs to always control the frame. So once you get her number, you do your closing, however you want to end the conversation. Next, don't call her the next day! Call her some on the 2-3 day, so you won't come off as a needy person. Call her, talk about scheduling where and how you would meet the next day. So you talk about it, and bla bla bla. So now, you are there on the place where you wanna take her, It's your choice now what to do. But, what you need to do is that start a conversation, you know play jokes, make her laugh, and tease her. Do all you're skills, while doing that make sure you kino and escalate it little by little. Its either you can accomplish that right now or later. But ask yourself why are you with this girl right now? to get her to sleep with you? maybe! so fucking do it and just game her, just be natural, and when you can sense that she likes you (you will sense and feel it). Once that silence hits, she looks at you, then you look at her, eye contact and hold it, then look at her lips AND GO FOR THE KISS! and BAMMM! Hope It Helps -RB |
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