Yeah man!! BIG BALLS!!
these shit tests seem to be the same nature so, theres something you should think about: that if you're in your own world and in your world people don't have to explain themselves for the things they do and they just do it and they don't need excuses to it, then it's okay.
this is your world and you really believe it, because it's true and when you believe it, she'll see it and then she'll believe it. girls will come to your world and now they know it's okay aswell. and they won't give you shit anymore about it.
the only shit tests i've been getting lately are "we're not going to have sex tonight" or "i'm not going to have sex with you tonight, because i'm not that kind of a girl" or something to that degree. (see the difference to your shit test?? yours: she sees something is going on that you're not totally comfortable with / don't believe is possible. or you're trying to get away with something sneaky...)
my shit tests are a result of my frame: she's in my world and in my world we have sex regurlarly and it's normal -> she's just trying to brake down my world with shit tests with some last trys, because she doesnt want to feel like a slut after she leaves my world.
i respond to these quickly: "yeah, you weren't gonna get anything from me anyway" and then continue with what we where doing right before the shit test like nothing happened. for example making out or just shooting shit... anything!
and after awhile we fuck and after that she'll be like "how did you get me to do this?? i never do anything like this"
/ "how did this happen?!"
-> "i don't know, it just did"
make out a bit more and do it again.