PUA Forum :: Missed opportunity at a Cafe. I'd nothing. Absolutely nothin

Hey guys (and girls),

I'm new here. I'm all the way over in Sydney, Australia. If anyone works or lives in the city of Sydney, PM me and we'll organize a coffee if you're so inclined.

OK, so I'm pretty pissed off with myself. I should have picked up this gorgeous girl today. I should have - but I didn't. I'll make it a quick story.

I has having a coffee at this cafe in a large shopping center this morning. I was working on my blog and other things on my laptop. By chance, my mum was around there with my nephew. I told her to come by to have a coffee with me. I had my nephew in my lap, playing around with the little guy while Mum had her coffee.

In come these two gorgeous gorgeous gorgeous girls. Really classy things. They sat right behind my mum. Now here's the thing. My mum recognized one of them. She use to teach her how to drive. Mums a driving school teacher.

As mum was getting up to leave, she said hello to the girl, they kissed, the girl looked over to me - and I quickly looked down at my laptop. (bad move I know)

I was more in the line of sight of the other girl. Which really was the girl I wanted. We made eye contact a few times. But each time it wouldn't be a long look, I guess we both looked away. I had a chance.

Here comes the bad news. They finished their food, they got up, they paid, they left. I just didn't know what to do. And this is where I'd like some advice if you can.

- Should I have just made my way to their table as soon as mum left?
- Should I have kept eye contact and tried to get the girl to come sit on my table?
- Should I have chased after the girl after they paid and starting walking away? (lame I know)

I'll probably never see these girls again. Really frustrated that I didn't act on this one. I need to know what to do, because if I am ever in that same situation - I WILL NOT let it go down like that again.

Cheers

Author:	adman [ Wed Apr 06, 2011 11:45 am ]
Post subject:	Missed opportunity at a Cafe. I'd nothing. Absolutely nothin
Hey guys (and girls), I'm new here. I'm all the way over in Sydney, Australia. If anyone works or lives in the city of Sydney, PM me and we'll organize a coffee if you're so inclined. OK, so I'm pretty pissed off with myself. I should have picked up this gorgeous girl today. I should have - but I didn't. I'll make it a quick story. I has having a coffee at this cafe in a large shopping center this morning. I was working on my blog and other things on my laptop. By chance, my mum was around there with my nephew. I told her to come by to have a coffee with me. I had my nephew in my lap, playing around with the little guy while Mum had her coffee. In come these two gorgeous gorgeous gorgeous girls. Really classy things. They sat right behind my mum. Now here's the thing. My mum recognized one of them. She use to teach her how to drive. Mums a driving school teacher. As mum was getting up to leave, she said hello to the girl, they kissed, the girl looked over to me - and I quickly looked down at my laptop. (bad move I know) I was more in the line of sight of the other girl. Which really was the girl I wanted. We made eye contact a few times. But each time it wouldn't be a long look, I guess we both looked away. I had a chance. Here comes the bad news. They finished their food, they got up, they paid, they left. I just didn't know what to do. And this is where I'd like some advice if you can. - Should I have just made my way to their table as soon as mum left? - Should I have kept eye contact and tried to get the girl to come sit on my table? - Should I have chased after the girl after they paid and starting walking away? (lame I know) I'll probably never see these girls again. Really frustrated that I didn't act on this one. I need to know what to do, because if I am ever in that same situation - I WILL NOT let it go down like that again. Cheers

Author:	SkyGroove [ Wed Apr 06, 2011 12:29 pm ]
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remember, talk about something related to the place you're at, and it's never bad to be social and just ask whatsup to whoever's around, make the woman talk about her life, it usually helps when you got nothing to say cheers

Author:	ZeroValley [ Wed Apr 06, 2011 12:46 pm ]
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The easiest thing you could've done is simply, here it comes, join your mother in her conversation with these girls and take it over "So how do you know each other", blablabla "She didn't rough you up too bad behind the wheel?", blabla. I can't think of any girls that would you shoot you down in that situation. (Important things to do is to direct most of the conversation to the girls) After your mother leaves simply continue it. (On a more seductive note.) If you didn't do / didn't want to do that one (With your mother there it might be 'weird', I'd understand that argument.), as you said, simply go up to them as soon as your mother / nephew leave. Again, you have all the situational openers in the world at your disposal, and it's immediately a semi-warm approach. -Chasing the girl after they walked away I'd usually pass on, too late. However game is not an exact science, and you could get amazing results even if you come out of that direction. -Always keep eye contact. A game I play is that with anyone I make eye contact with, they need to break it first or I 'lose'. You seem passionate about learning, keep it up. -ZeroValley

Author:	romaninlove [ Wed Apr 06, 2011 1:22 pm ]
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Quote: I quickly looked down at my laptop It's happened because you don't have a good experience of that. Don't think that girl it is a queen. All people are equal. If you think in this way you never be a needy or shy. So, just go right now and have some fan. Only you can solve this problem with your actions. Quote: - Should I have just made my way to their table as soon as mum left? - Should I have kept eye contact and tried to get the girl to come sit on my table? - Should I have chased after the girl after they paid and starting walking away? (lame I know) Hey, you know your mistakes. You confidence and your self-esteem is really down. You need start practicing. As possible as you can if you wanna change the situation. Go now and open some sets or girl. Your mistakes - it is a great experience. Don't be afraid of you mistakes. Mistakes give you a progress. With Love, Roman.

Author:	Da_Lion [ Thu Apr 07, 2011 8:38 am ]
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Quote: -Always keep eye contact. A game I play is that with anyone I make eye contact with, they need to break it first or I 'lose'. -ZeroValley So Zero you just stare back at them with a smile on your face for as long as they stare at you? Cause since Ive been looking for eye contact I notice that I actually get plenty of it I just give em a smile but Im always the first to look away while keeping a smile on my face

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Author:	Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Apr 07, 2011 10:15 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Missed opportunity at a Cafe. I'd nothing. Absolutely nothin
Quote: Hey guys (and girls), I'm new here. I'm all the way over in Sydney, Australia. If anyone works or lives in the city of Sydney, PM me and we'll organize a coffee if you're so inclined. OK, so I'm pretty pissed off with myself. I should have picked up this gorgeous girl today. I should have - but I didn't. I'll make it a quick story. I has having a coffee at this cafe in a large shopping center this morning. I was working on my blog and other things on my laptop. By chance, my mum was around there with my nephew. I told her to come by to have a coffee with me. I had my nephew in my lap, playing around with the little guy while Mum had her coffee. In come these two gorgeous gorgeous gorgeous girls. Really classy things. They sat right behind my mum. Now here's the thing. My mum recognized one of them. She use to teach her how to drive. Mums a driving school teacher. As mum was getting up to leave, she said hello to the girl, they kissed, the girl looked over to me - and I quickly looked down at my laptop. (bad move I know) I was more in the line of sight of the other girl. Which really was the girl I wanted. We made eye contact a few times. But each time it wouldn't be a long look, I guess we both looked away. I had a chance. Here comes the bad news. They finished their food, they got up, they paid, they left. I just didn't know what to do. And this is where I'd like some advice if you can. - Should I have just made my way to their table as soon as mum left? - Should I have kept eye contact and tried to get the girl to come sit on my table? - Should I have chased after the girl after they paid and starting walking away? (lame I know) I'll probably never see these girls again. Really frustrated that I didn't act on this one. I need to know what to do, because if I am ever in that same situation - I WILL NOT let it go down like that again. Cheers Not taking opportunities does suck and it is frustrating. But just make sure you take that emotion use it to push yourself into sets next time! In this scenario, there were a lot of options available. You could have gone over when your mum was talking to her student, and introduced yourself, and then talked to your target whilst she was talking with her student. Since it's a very special case where your mum is there, SUBcommunicating sexuality whilst having a polite chat would have been best, followed by saying "we should continue this another time" and getting her number. You could have also waited until your mum left, gone over and asked the friend if it would be ok to borrow her friend for a sec, and then complimented the target directly. OR, it's totally OK to run out of the shop, get in front of them (with a SMILE) and deliver a compliment to them. I do it all the time!

Author:	SkyGroove [ Thu Apr 07, 2011 1:49 pm ]
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you have to understand there is no problem in you wanting to improve your social connections, your social network what's wrong about having a little chat with someone, enjoying their company, and therefore having their number so you can chill out later, see where i'm getting at? fix your beliefs and the way you see things, the rest will come after cheers

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