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Author:  Anakin_FlyTalKer [ Sun Mar 27, 2011 3:44 pm ]
Post subject:  The "can I use you" opener.
Ok I made this one up myself.

I was sitting thinking of what girls I could call to make this other girl jealous, and it dawned on me!

1. I can ask any random girl I find attractive to do this.

2. There doesn't actually have to be a girl to make jealous.

SO heres how it goes.

PUA: Hey, Hi, how are you doing?

HER: Good blah blah blah

PUA: Hey if you got the time, I would like to use you for something

HER: Yeah ok sure.

PUA: Ok there's this girl I been talking to, and she be on that BULL SHIT, and I wanna make her jealous and you the PERFECT girl for the job. Can you help me?

HER: AMmmm what do you want me to do????

PUA: Just sit and talk to me and ACT all interested in what I have to say, she's about to walk by! (don't point her out)

Then from here you can game her for IDK like 10-20 secs then just be like "Ok she passed by and gave me a look" THEN YOU can # close.

ME: Hey thank you soooo much, can I use you again in the future maybe??

HER: Yeah sure why not?

# close......

Sounds like a solid approach, what do you guys think?
Author:  Jits138 [ Sun Mar 27, 2011 4:18 pm ]
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I think you should give it a shot and let us know how it goes. looks solid enough if you cancel out the neediness with awesome body language.
Author:  Anakin_FlyTalKer [ Sun Mar 27, 2011 4:46 pm ]
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Neediness?
I'm assuming the part were I say "can I use you for a second" part is the needy part? I don't think thats to needy, I feel it like I'm asking a favor, IN WHICH she can easily turn down with out her feeling bad about saying no.
Author:  SLWY [ Mon Mar 28, 2011 1:50 am ]
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Girls use this on me. Three times so far. I wouldn't use it. Just my thoughts.
Author:  Anakin_FlyTalKer [ Mon Mar 28, 2011 2:29 am ]
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Ok, well how bout from now on when you post, you elaborate more.....
Author:  Jits138 [ Mon Mar 28, 2011 2:35 am ]
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Neediness?
I'm assuming the part were I say "can I use you for a second" part is the needy part? I don't think thats to needy, I feel it like I'm asking a favor, IN WHICH she can easily turn down with out her feeling bad about saying no.
Neediness as far as needing to make a girl jealous. Making a girl jealous is something I try to avoid at all costs because it happens without me trying... that's the baller attitude.
Author:  BrianFL2 [ Mon Mar 28, 2011 4:15 am ]
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you can go one step farther and not even ask the other girl for anything.

talk to the main target, then say "oh I see my old friend over there, I'll just be a minute". Walk over and start hitting on a hot girl, telling her jokes so she laughs.

go back to the first girl and see what happens. If she is not warming up to you, go back to the other girl.

worst case is you hit on two women, no biggie. best case is they both like you.

I actually did this once, and my result was the original target got major into me, sitting on my lap and such and the other one saw and blew me off.
Author:  Anakin_FlyTalKer [ Mon Mar 28, 2011 4:22 am ]
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Neediness?
I'm assuming the part were I say "can I use you for a second" part is the needy part? I don't think thats to needy, I feel it like I'm asking a favor, IN WHICH she can easily turn down with out her feeling bad about saying no.
Neediness as far as needing to make a girl jealous. Making a girl jealous is something I try to avoid at all costs because it happens without me trying... that's the baller attitude.
Thats not being needy, if that were the case anything that anyone asked anyone would make them look needy #getyourheadoutyourass.
Author:  _Lothario_ [ Mon Apr 04, 2011 2:47 am ]
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lame.

super lame.
Author:  First-Rate [ Mon Apr 04, 2011 3:35 am ]
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dont think you need to do all this work.


most girls wont have fun trying to make someone else jealous -- why would they care?!?!

and also just cause you talk to another girl doesnt mean you will get the 1st girl jealous.

i think you should watch some of the great videos on here and TALK to the girl.

best advice i can offer....focus on how you are gonna talk to the girl and get the girl....spend less time on other girls and how you hope they will effect your girl.

dont leave it to chance (which this does).....just go after your girl!!

if u have any more questions though, feel free to PM me!


hope that helps,
Cheers.
Author:  ix. [ Mon Apr 04, 2011 8:06 pm ]
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It's go the makings of a fun opener but it's WAY too long. Way too needy.

Here's a slightly revised version. STILL UNTESTED.

PUA: I need to sit here for just a minute. [*sit down* Dont ask, look worried]

I'd assume they will either give you an instant rejection or you can carry on

PUA: Sorry, there's this girl who keeps hitting on me, I'm just not into her and she won't get the message [DHV: I have standards]. Mind if I hide here for a minute?

PUA: *looking over shoulder* Oh crap, there she is. Look interested [This is a compliance test, at this point you'll be able to see if the set will hook]

PUA: Thanks! [look like you're about to walk off and re-open]

I'd follow with an observational opener. "That is a really nice necklace!"
Author:  Jits138 [ Thu Apr 07, 2011 11:18 pm ]
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Neediness?
I'm assuming the part were I say "can I use you for a second" part is the needy part? I don't think thats to needy, I feel it like I'm asking a favor, IN WHICH she can easily turn down with out her feeling bad about saying no.
Neediness as far as needing to make a girl jealous. Making a girl jealous is something I try to avoid at all costs because it happens without me trying... that's the baller attitude.
Thats not being needy, if that were the case anything that anyone asked anyone would make them look needy #getyourheadoutyourass.
Haha, I like how you get so angry. it's cute. Try being a little less emotionally reactive and it will help your openers. Nobody was trying to be mean, bro. Your open was kind of lame and sounded needy. If you can't even handle rejection from the boys how the hell do you survive in field?
Author:  The_MC [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 7:45 pm ]
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It's go the makings of a fun opener but it's WAY too long. Way too needy.

Here's a slightly revised version. STILL UNTESTED.

PUA: I need to sit here for just a minute. [*sit down* Dont ask, look worried]

I'd assume they will either give you an instant rejection or you can carry on

PUA: Sorry, there's this girl who keeps hitting on me, I'm just not into her and she won't get the message [DHV: I have standards]. Mind if I hide here for a minute?

PUA: *looking over shoulder* Oh crap, there she is. Look interested [This is a compliance test, at this point you'll be able to see if the set will hook]

PUA: Thanks! [look like you're about to walk off and re-open]

I'd follow with an observational opener. "That is a really nice necklace!"


This.
Author:  psychx [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 8:55 pm ]
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This doesn't follow any pickup routine I can reasonable conceive as "gaming." As a strong follower in Mystery Method, I can honestly say you won't have many results with this type of routine. You have a decent opener I suppose, but that's only A1. You need to move to A2 then A3. From there you can consider number closing, then move into C1, C2, C3, Kiss-closes, and so on..... Good luck regardless though.
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