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Author:  Undecided [ Wed Mar 16, 2011 7:53 pm ]
Post subject:  DaY GaMe opening vs NiGhT GaMe OpEnInG
I can walk into the club pick a set and approch no problem but when it comes to day game I fall short. I have walked up to a 4 set of 9s and 10s and opened no problem but when it comes to me opening during the day I find myself walking the malls aimlessly. I have no poblem talking to anyone and everyone during the day but pickup is different for me.
Author:  DaveUrkel (BlackWhitePU) [ Fri Mar 18, 2011 5:56 am ]
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So what exactly is your issue then? If you can talk to anyone during the day, why can't you approach during the day?
Author:  Moreno [ Fri Mar 18, 2011 7:49 pm ]
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i suggest trying to pick up while u do things during the day,so dont just go out
for the pickup,go do ur daily stuff,and as ur walking around and u see some cute girl
open her.That way u have a topic to talk about,u can tell her what u're up to,and ask
her as well.I suggest going direct cause it works for me more,u know giving
her a compliment,telling her that u wanted to meet her and then name exchange
and launch into convo.But if its not ur type of stuff try some situational
comments,observe her what she's doing,is she shopping,does she look
like she's having a great day or does she look frustrated,comment on that
and introduce urselt.It's all about appearing normal
Author:  Undecided [ Fri Mar 18, 2011 8:08 pm ]
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Thanks for the advice Moreno. I think I fail because I go to the mall with one objective in mind. If I do it when I have other buiness to take care of then I will not feel like I have wasted my time. Even though I try to look at regection as a learning experience it still gets to me. I do like the more genuine aproach so I am going to say away from openers that I use in clubs. I am going to try some more day game out and let you know how it goes.
Author:  Moreno [ Fri Mar 18, 2011 8:51 pm ]
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i remember when i started daygame and i was like walking around,and not approaching any of the girls that i found cute and then when i got back home i was like "damn i just wasted 1 hour walking around and i didnt do nothin"
At that time i used to have some excuses on my mind like "well i'm not
dressed well enough today" or "i dont know what to say" or
"i'm feeling kinda tired,plus i havent eaten so i should try openning some other time instead" it's gonna be more likely that u'll approach if u get rid of all
the excuses.So for example for me,i build my mood up home,then leave the house,i wear clean clothes that i feel good looking in,i have a bath so i feel fresh, i eat something so i dont feel weak,i style my hair,make it look nice,,
i do some vocal warm up exercises to warm up my voice so it sounds clear
and smooth.I sometimes grab the phone and start talking to some friends
for some minutes before going out so i can get a bit into social mode.
Hell i even sometimes put some nice music and dance in my house to get
my body movin and uplifting.See what i'm sayin? u should
definatelly build ur mood up before goin out in any way u can.I'll give u an
opener that has worked for me well during the day so u dont have the
"i dont know what to say" excuse.

Go up to her,and with a smile on ur face say "Hello" this is to get her attention,
let her see u,let her make eye contact with u before continuing,
then say something like "i noticed u walking" or "i noticed u sitting here"
or "i saw u while i was walking outside"-if she's in a store.Dont use these,they're
just an example,ur gonna say something simillar to these based on where ur gonna see her and then say "and i had to come meet u cause u look really
stunning/gorgeous/cute/fun* pick any one of these compliments.Then if u did it
right she'll just say thank u,sometimes they look flattered and smille,
tell her ur name right there and give her ur hand to shake hands.

It's important to pause between those lines,if u rush it out too quickly it'll look like u prepared it,and it wont be honest.

good luck,hope u do well
Author:  Undecided [ Mon Mar 21, 2011 9:04 pm ]
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I realize the skill that is attainable from practicing over and over. But I have that little voice in your head that tells you that I'm not any good so why would I try and embarrass myself I should just walk home.... Wrong if I bad at something I should be putting in more effort then someone who is good at something. This goes for anything! I have the heart to do it and I will make a PUA journal so you can watch my progress and see how your advise comes into play. As for the mood thing. You nailed it! I realized that good things come from a good state of mind. This is a simple fact that more people should start applying to there life. As for in feild Day Game practice I have plans to go with another aspiring PUA to the mall Monday. We plan on critique each other and learning from experiance. O quick note I did succeed in getting a number from a sales girl in the mall last monday. See and her coworkers were sending me IOIs left and right just for body langauge and it was a cool feeling to be running the convesation as 3 girls oggled me. So I selected my target and used a no fail phycolgical game to get a number. I will keep in touch.

--I wish I had a PUA name to type here but I am not going to force on apon myself.
Author:  Pierce 007 [ Tue Mar 22, 2011 1:33 am ]
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Awesome mate just plug away at this- sometimes its fun , sometimes stressfull! Its more terrifying not being able to do this than it is sitting on your xbox knowing you havent even tried!
Author:  LifeCheck [ Tue Mar 22, 2011 4:55 am ]
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great tips.
Author:  Undecided [ Tue Mar 22, 2011 8:25 pm ]
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Moreno things are finally coming into play. I have good game once I approuch I just need to get over the fear of the approach. Which makes no sense to me considering I have not had one set go wrong since I have been practicing day game...

So my friends were in a rush and they headed out to the mall to go to a course that there are in. I tagged along walked with them in the mall for a bit until they had to go to the there course. I did some quick shopping then decided it was time to sarg. The problem was it was laundry day and because my friends were in a rush to get to the mall I had no time to change. I was wearing a pair of camo pants with a broken fly, a dirty hoodie and one of my old high school's T shirts. To top it off my hair was messy that day and I never did shave that morning. I thought to myself if I can pick up someone like this I should have not problem any other day. So I scanned the mall looking for my target. It was late at night so I didn't have many options. I walked by a few that I could have opened but bailed. I seen a gougous girl working at this small little shop I knew I had to go over there and talk to her. I killed the 3 second rule but I told myself if I don't even try then how can I improve? So I walked up to her looked at her and said "hi" with a little smile on my face and she replied back "hi." I looked at her and with a friendly smile said " I walked by you and seen you working here...( like you said ) and I wouldn't let myself keep walking away from you so over here and introduce myself because you are really cute". Her face went red as she covered her face to barely hide her smile. So I introduced myself we talked for a bit. After talking to her for a bit I asked for her number so we could get to know each other better. Before I even had my phone out she turned around to get a pen and paper.

Not a word of a lie the girl is a solid 9-10 on anyones scale. :) Me and my friend plan to do some more sarging Wendsday so I will let you know how that goes.
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