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Author:  hypersushi [ Fri Mar 11, 2011 3:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Seated Sets: Need help to keep the conversation going
I always face a problem going far with seated sets. I tried a direct approach complementing a HB and she says thanks and then I don't know how to take it from there. It's partly because she does not have any interesting items on her for me to comment, she is drinking or eating very ordinary stuff and they all look away to their drinks/friends either shocked and not sure how to react and not to look at me out of shyness (?)

Other times, I comment on what they're eating... is it good..then slide into the adjacent seat and proceed to order from the menu... the sets do not seem shocked nor interested and do not attempt to converse much... what do I do there?

Other times, I just don't know how to proceed coz the seated sets are just seating and talking on the handphone or using the laptop... any ideas? I do not have approach anxiety (usually) but due to lack of game, I know it won't go far....

Your feedback most welcome.
Author:  rozedavoice [ Fri Mar 11, 2011 4:04 pm ]
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this is a serious problem because if you dont seem interesting enough to talk to in person she'll get bored of you quick in text and phone chat, my adice is look in your self ind trait you can make your self interested about. the excitment is what keeps a set, if not find opener to create conversation
Author:  forestmonster [ Sat Mar 12, 2011 2:44 am ]
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be extroverted.

an extrovert is like a 5 year old kid. he just says ANYTHING that he feels. by this i mean.
a.he sees something and says what he feels about it
b.he thinks of something and says what he feels about it.
c.he remembers something and says what he feels about it
d.he hears something and says what he feels about it


u:sup
her:hi
u:whats going on here
her:nothing
u:lets do something
her:i dont know
u;i dont know either
her:ok
u:help me think of something
her:i still dont know
u;use your brain mine is overloaded
her;ok ill try
u:u trying yet?
her: yes
u:try harder
her:well are you from around here?




you see i thought of this conversation in like zero fucking seconds. i was just spitting it out of my brain immediately. and until you find some topic to talk about then you talk about that topic. once that topic runs out. go back to extrovert 5 year old kid mode until once again you both find a topic to discuss. ta da!!!

is she gonna think your weird? NO because shes just as weird not asking you something or thinking of something good.



also if she gets bored gets back to her phone, backpack, work, laptop. if you were an extrovert you would immediately say or DO what you feel about that item. aka taking it away and using it or asking about that item or commenting on that item.


here ill add you a free tip. free of charge buddy.
PHYSICAL TOUCHING. yep. physical touching makes the funnest interactions. its way more fun than some DHV routine. sure a DHV or bt spike will get some emotion there. but geting close to her and touching her will make her fucking heard blow up emotions aka super fucking horny. yes girls do get as horny as you do when you touch them and are near them.

so yeah within 15 seconds of your opener start the touching. any random touching is perfectly acceptable. just not the tits, ass, pussy. if touches are rejected physically or verbally simply stop for like 15-20 seconds and start touching again. shell either walk away or stay.

besides what makes you think shell accept your touch 30min after talking if it was not accepted in the first 1min of talking? if she wont even let you lightly tap her shoulder or get a little closer within the 1st minute i highly doubt that youll be able to get any touches done after 5min of building your verbal attraction/comfort/seduction.
Author:  rozedavoice [ Sat Mar 12, 2011 6:10 am ]
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Ill agree and disagree yea he should be able to make a conversation of the top of his head. But not any conversation he need here attention basic conversation what you mention makes a female re think her re think her choice.
Author:  hypersushi [ Mon Mar 14, 2011 8:47 am ]
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I think rozedavoice you may be slightly misunderstanding my question here. I have no problem gaming standing sets or sets doing shopping/ browsing books.... I can keep the conversation going and can number close. My sticking point is seated sets especially if they have nothing interesting for me to make conversation. Also, maybe some one can tip me on how I can transition to a squat or pulling a chair to sit and chat further coz it seems so unnatural and weird to me.

It's as if I'm a pesky salesman and once they are done with the formalities, they just quickly go back to their handphones or conversation and I am the DLV guy now...
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Mar 14, 2011 11:44 am ]
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I used to have this mental block about seated sets, but now I think they're often easier than walking ones.

Go over, open direct, and make sure you acknowledge the friend and be polite. Transition into normal conversation with simple questions, cold reads, jokes or a story. As long as they smile or laugh just once, you're ok to just slide over a chair or sit down in an empty seat. If there isn't one, just keep aware and hopefully something will turn up. If nothing does, just continue the set for a few minutes, and then say you gotta run and grab her number. It's not a big deal.
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