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| Author: | chazman0426 [ Sat Feb 19, 2011 5:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How do I approach when this happens? |
Ok last weekend I went downtown to a few bars and had a good time as talked about in my earlier post. Anyway I tried doing some approaches mostly because the guys I was with dared me. I believe I tried 3 approaches (there weren't that many girls) since it was a Tuesday night. I noticed that in a lot of sets, the girls were already talking to a guy or another girl in a conversation. How do you politely interrupt them especially if your a stranger? It's weird if you sort of linger by for a few seconds ect. Also I remember a few times, I'd go up and say something but I either wasn't heard or acknowledged until the second time or if I had to lean in more. But if I try again it looks very AFCish and throws off my confidence a little. How do you get around this and get the girl's attention or the attention of the group already in conversation? I know doing game after a few drinks isn't a good idea but it actually increases my game since it helps with AA if I've had just a few and no more. If I bomb I'm numb to it and move on to the next. When I'm myself It tends to hit me harder and take me longer to recover ect. |
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| Author: | Mr Leek [ Sat Feb 19, 2011 6:12 pm ] |
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Just go up to her and do a cold read. Say something like, i can tell that you are really good with computers. I can tell you like dongles so how about it? Or you could say, i bet you are a traffic warden, because you are fine. |
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| Author: | drewuggz [ Sat Feb 19, 2011 6:17 pm ] |
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go up to a group and look at your target and say "can i hang out with you guys for a minute? i think my psycho ex-gf is here ..." and point out a hot girl thats not paying any attention lol start small talk from here, like where yall from build rapport wit the whole group the girls will most likely ask about your "psycho ex-gf" in which u can make up stories and shieeet. if it fails and they are all not responsive you can always exit with " ok good i think shes gone, ill c u guys later" im only 20 yrs old and so i dunno if it works on older women |
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| Author: | chazman0426 [ Sun Feb 20, 2011 2:55 am ] |
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I like that ex girlfriend one. I figure that by raising your voice and doing an opinion opener is probably the best bet as long as you look like your about to leave. Then if they start to engage you gradually make your way into the group. I think opinion openers are the best if you interrupt groups especially with guys. Otherwise people are more likely to shut you out. I may go out again tonight, and give it another test. |
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| Author: | the_jester [ Sun Feb 20, 2011 3:04 am ] |
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Personally I wouldn't do it. It starts you off by suggesting a the psycho ex is only a few yards away, along with whatever fictional baggage the target will believe exists. If you were about to kiss close, would you ask for an opinion on cold sores while pointing at your lips? I say don't shoot yourself in the foot. |
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| Author: | blackston3 [ Sun Feb 20, 2011 4:00 pm ] |
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Quote: go up to a group and look at your target and say
Looks pretty good, don't see why it shouldn't work with older women... they love the attention LOL
"can i hang out with you guys for a minute? i think my psycho ex-gf is here ..." and point out a hot girl thats not paying any attention lol start small talk from here, like where yall from build rapport wit the whole group the girls will most likely ask about your "psycho ex-gf" in which u can make up stories and shieeet. if it fails and they are all not responsive you can always exit with " ok good i think shes gone, ill c u guys later" im only 20 yrs old and so i dunno if it works on older women |
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| Author: | overheat [ Sun Feb 20, 2011 6:09 pm ] |
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well first of all dont hover around and wait for your moment it wont happen plus you look creepy lol. if it was me i would just go in and say my lines like they were waiting for me.. i get a lot of smiles doing that, its "cute" and from there on your the focus |
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| Author: | Bloke [ Mon Feb 21, 2011 12:40 am ] |
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Quote: go up to a group and look at your target and say
I think this is really awesome. If delivered correctly so it doesn't sound like you're using your set for a bomb shelter that's about to get nuked. "can i hang out with you guys for a minute? i think my psycho ex-gf is here ..." You'd have to say "she's totally gonna talk my ear off! mind if I stay here for a sec?" Then stack your next routine and you should be in. If they do ask about your ex gf just DHV |
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| Author: | drewuggz [ Tue Feb 22, 2011 1:56 am ] |
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its all about how enthusiatic u are. JUMP IN THERE ALL HYPED AND GO "ohh shitttt my fucking ex here, yo hide me lol" crowd: uhhh wtf.... you: yooo my fucking ex isss crazzaaayy yo (point a really hot one) crowd: lol whatt where (if the girl u point comes over and the group asks and shes like wtf hes not my bf be like " ohhhh hahahah thank fucking god ur not her... and neg her and approach the hottie. its a win win.... if done right and u look scared of a "ex gf" u can easily pull it off. laugh wit the group and make stories up where she fucking threw ur clothes into a fire place or she made u eat terrible food she cooks stuff to make girls laugh.... its a definate win! |
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| Author: | LegitAlfa [ Tue Feb 22, 2011 4:07 am ] |
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Say hi. Works every time. |
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| Author: | psychx [ Tue Feb 22, 2011 4:26 am ] |
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I like this "ex-girlfriend might be here" opener. I just might have to try this sometime. |
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| Author: | drewuggz [ Tue Feb 22, 2011 7:20 am ] |
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try it all out, its primoooo!!!! its called the drewuggz psycho technique lolol tell me how it works... for me its a charmmmm gets hot HOT girls u might have to be somewhat attractive tho |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Tue Feb 22, 2011 11:22 am ] |
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Any group, mixed or not, just say "Hey! Are you guys friendly?" with a smile. If they say no, you wouldn't have wanted to be around them anyway. If yes, be like "Awesome! Me too!" and hi five everyone. Then do introductions, ask them what's up, and maybe tell a funny story about something that happened to you so they realise you're actually a cool guy, and go from there. Don't only focus your energy on lone wolves in a club/bar. There won't be that many, and you're limiting yourself. By making sure you always open everyone, you're showing you're just a fun, social guy, and you will raise your value very quickly in the venue, making the approaches on the real HBs a lot easier. |
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| Author: | drewuggz [ Tue Feb 22, 2011 4:37 pm ] |
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i live in nyc, u do that in a club or a bar people will think your a special ed kid or something... its all about swagger and doing that shows absolutely none... except ur a nice guy and nice guys finish last... |
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| Author: | drewuggz [ Tue Feb 22, 2011 4:39 pm ] |
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im sorry especially the high fives.... that works best when ur building rapport wit a girl one on one... giving everyone high fives??? the alphamale in the group will see u as a total tool....and then annihilate u in the social game... that openin made me laugh im sorry... doesnt involve or intrigue anyone in the group, so simple so dull, and high fives make u look desperate... SORRY IF I AM MEAN WIT MY WORDS |
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