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Author:  xWolf [ Mon Feb 07, 2011 7:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Facebook girls, don't know how to approach

Ok my goal here is to get two girls numbers from Facebook. These girls I know both of them,

Girl #1:
Ok so this girl is a girl I knew my freshman year in highschool. I was always nice to her and she dated my best friend alot along time ago!! I know he knows me but we've never really talked. Interestingly enough shes extremely hot now and gets paid to model. Don't know how to initialize or how to establish a conversational connection. What to do?

Girl #2:
So I also knew this girl freshman year in highschool. This girl I never talked to in highschool. I always thought she was just to popular for me and I never tried. To be honest I had no idea she knew I existed. I mean I was fairly popular but I didn't think she knew who I was. I chatted her on Facebook the other day and she knew my name! From about 4 years ago. And when I say name I mean my nickname! So I'm kinda shocked. How should I proceed? What do I need to do.

Author:  k.humphries12 [ Tue Feb 08, 2011 2:08 am ]
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first and foremost..your main goal when talking to a girl shouldn't be to get her number. It should be to build comfort and attraction.

Girl 1: If the girls a model, dont be a pest, she most likely gets more then enough attention from guys who add her on FB and like her pics and send her messages.
So don't overdo anything. Talk to her casually on fb chat or message, I cant tell you a exact topic because you will sound robotic, but just be the cool laid back interesting guy and throw in a tease here or there.

Same advice for girl #2...just dont be a chode.

You need to go through some trial and error, trust me ive added about 300 girls on facebook the past 2 years. Ive been shat on a large amount of times, but i've been extremely succesful aswell...you just need to find out what your style is.

Good luck

Author:  JohnSharp [ Thu Feb 10, 2011 10:36 am ]
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Just be real man. It's not that hard. Just post a reply on a thread started by a mutual friend.

Author:  the_modern_warrior [ Thu Feb 10, 2011 10:53 am ]
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Quote:
first and foremost..your main goal when talking to a girl shouldn't be to get her number. It should be to build comfort and attraction.

Girl 1: If the girls a model, dont be a pest, she most likely gets more then enough attention from guys who add her on FB and like her pics and send her messages.
So don't overdo anything. Talk to her casually on fb chat or message, I cant tell you a exact topic because you will sound robotic, but just be the cool laid back interesting guy and throw in a tease here or there.

Same advice for girl #2...just dont be a chode.

You need to go through some trial and error, trust me ive added about 300 girls on facebook the past 2 years. Ive been shat on a large amount of times, but i've been extremely succesful aswell...you just need to find out what your style is.

Good luck
yes I also do it like that. FB is just a tool to help , even if she refuse it's just an online refuse, it's not like she knows you :D

Author:  barrybigtime [ Thu Feb 10, 2011 6:07 pm ]
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I agree with Sergio.X. I think at the end of the day before you speak to a girl the only thing she can judge you on is your pics and the posts on you wall. Make sure you get this aspect right...while your chatting them up they will be scanning your profile.

I make a point of writing on loads of girls walls' who I am chatting up and in return they post on my wall making me look popular and attractive. When I was oblivous I thought that kinda behaviour would be off putting but at the very least the target will think "hmmm this guy has a lot of girls after him...but he is talking to me".

Don't be the norm is the biggest tip I can give. Every girl gets the "hi how are you...had a good day?" bullshit. Think on your feet and be funny. I have used a lot of stuff like the pick a number between 1-10 thing on girls over chat and when they picked 7 just been cocky funny and said "see we are meant to be together...its just a pity your too much of a nice girl for me".

Just make sure your never clingy, you always end the convo and your not afraid to go for a couple of days without speaking to them.

Author:  NaturalApproach [ Fri Feb 11, 2011 7:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook girls, don't know how to approach

Anyone here tried Push Button Dating? I think it might help our boy here
Quote:
Ok my goal here is to get two girls numbers from Facebook. These girls I know both of them,

Girl #1:
Ok so this girl is a girl I knew my freshman year in highschool. I was always nice to her and she dated my best friend alot along time ago!! I know he knows me but we've never really talked. Interestingly enough shes extremely hot now and gets paid to model. Don't know how to initialize or how to establish a conversational connection. What to do?

Girl #2:
So I also knew this girl freshman year in highschool. This girl I never talked to in highschool. I always thought she was just to popular for me and I never tried. To be honest I had no idea she knew I existed. I mean I was fairly popular but I didn't think she knew who I was. I chatted her on Facebook the other day and she knew my name! From about 4 years ago. And when I say name I mean my nickname! So I'm kinda shocked. How should I proceed? What do I need to do.

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