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Author:  After Shock [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 11:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re-Re Approach
Hey guys back in my AFC days I was crushing on this super cute girl, now I wanna try and tap the potential :D

-I have her on facebook
-I don't have her number
- I haven't seen/spoken to her for about a year

How do I re-initiative contact, do you reckon I should go straight out and ask her on a date?
Author:  Jits138 [ Fri Feb 04, 2011 7:03 pm ]
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"wow, I was cleaning out my friends list and bumped into your page! I haven't seen you in forever!! How have you been? "

pretty solid re-open. She will recognize that instead of deleting her with the rest of the junk you sent a message. Very slight and casual IOI.
Author:  dude with stick [ Sat Feb 05, 2011 7:38 pm ]
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^ That does not sound casual.

Message her something stupid to catch her attention like:

I just saw somebody steal your goat, msg back asap.
or
I'm going to rob a bank and jump into a submarine full of strippers, wanna join?

There's a good chance that she will respond like wtf?

then you can say:
Direct: I was bored and wanted to know if you were who I thought you were.

THEN you ask her more personal questions, or her opinion on something.

I.e. This is perfect timing, I need your opinion on something. I have a friend who told his girlfriend I love you, but he was drunk. He took it back when he was sober and he's gf is pissed, who do you think is right?

Her: blah blah blah.

This sets up something for you to talk about on a date, and trust me, there will be lots to talk about.

I hope that helps.
Author:  Jits138 [ Sat Feb 05, 2011 8:47 pm ]
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Quote:
^ That does not sound casual.

Message her something stupid to catch her attention like:

I just saw somebody steal your goat, msg back asap.
or
I'm going to rob a bank and jump into a submarine full of strippers, wanna join?

There's a good chance that she will respond like wtf?

then you can say:
Direct: I was bored and wanted to know if you were who I thought you were.

THEN you ask her more personal questions, or her opinion on something.

I.e. This is perfect timing, I need your opinion on something. I have a friend who told his girlfriend I love you, but he was drunk. He took it back when he was sober and he's gf is pissed, who do you think is right?

Her: blah blah blah.

This sets up something for you to talk about on a date, and trust me, there will be lots to talk about.

I hope that helps.
Well there are 2 reasons that trying to sound casual will make you seem try-hard.

1) You already have an established relationship with this person.
2) It is already clear that you are expressing interest. which I talked about in the post.

Take either approach and post your results.
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