PUA Forum :: Direct opener daygame

"Hi, i just noticed you

and i dont want to be wierd

and i know this might be pretty random

and you probably get this alot,

but i think you kinda cute.

I would have regretted not coming over here and starting a conversation with you."

then i said we should be friends

OK, so you only need ONE preframe - pick EITHER "I know this is random" OR "I don't wanna be weird" OR "You probably get this a lot" (not the best) and only say one of them.

Everything else is fine, but then

WHY did you say you wanted to be friends?

You've just done the hard part and gone out there and expressed a pretty clear romantic intent. Why not just sit back and get to know her a bit, then exchange numbers and set up a date?

how should i continue with her?

so i was at college in class where there was this HB9 sitting a few seats away. after class ends she bolts out and coincidentally we were both headed the same way and she stopped at the bus stop and started to wait. I approached and opened with this:

"Hi, i just noticed you and i dont want to be wierd and i know this might be pretty random and you probably get this alot, but i think you kinda cute. I would have regretted not coming over here and starting a conversation with you." (introductions). then i said we should be friends and she was like yea definitely. and i closed with a email and said do you have a facebook? and she said yea and then spelled her last name for me

we chatted a bit more and she was saying how she actually doesnt get approached that often during the day and then i exited with it was nice meeting you but i have to go meet a friend soon.

feedback appreciated

Author:	chill46 [ Wed Feb 02, 2011 3:10 am ]
Post subject:	Direct opener daygame
so i was at college in class where there was this HB9 sitting a few seats away. after class ends she bolts out and coincidentally we were both headed the same way and she stopped at the bus stop and started to wait. I approached and opened with this: "Hi, i just noticed you and i dont want to be wierd and i know this might be pretty random and you probably get this alot, but i think you kinda cute. I would have regretted not coming over here and starting a conversation with you." (introductions). then i said we should be friends and she was like yea definitely. and i closed with a email and said do you have a facebook? and she said yea and then spelled her last name for me we chatted a bit more and she was saying how she actually doesnt get approached that often during the day and then i exited with it was nice meeting you but i have to go meet a friend soon. feedback appreciated

Author:	cspears01 [ Wed Feb 02, 2011 6:47 am ]
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man it sounds like your headin right into the friend zone... you started out in comfort and skipped attraction all together... i dont know how familiar you are with the way the model is but it goes A(attraction) C(comfort) s(seduction)...

Author:	bandito69 [ Wed Feb 02, 2011 6:48 am ]
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She doesnt get approached cause all the guys at your college are wusses? that makes her feel she isnt that hot? Its funny like that sometimes, you really cant assume anything about a girl untill you actually get to know her,

Author:	Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Wed Feb 02, 2011 12:12 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Direct opener daygame
Quote: "Hi, i just noticed you and i dont want to be wierd and i know this might be pretty random and you probably get this alot, but i think you kinda cute. I would have regretted not coming over here and starting a conversation with you." then i said we should be friends OK, so you only need ONE preframe - pick EITHER "I know this is random" OR "I don't wanna be weird" OR "You probably get this a lot" (not the best) and only say one of them. Everything else is fine, but then WHY did you say you wanted to be friends? You've just done the hard part and gone out there and expressed a pretty clear romantic intent. Why not just sit back and get to know her a bit, then exchange numbers and set up a date?

Author:	chill46 [ Wed Feb 02, 2011 3:37 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Direct opener daygame
Quote: OK, so you only need ONE preframe - pick EITHER "I know this is random" OR "I don't wanna be weird" OR "You probably get this a lot" (not the best) and only say one of them. Everything else is fine, but then WHY did you say you wanted to be friends? You've just done the hard part and gone out there and expressed a pretty clear romantic intent. Why not just sit back and get to know her a bit, then exchange numbers and set up a date? I got into the set and i got nervous and freaked a lil bit. direct game is kinda new to me and i didnt know what to say after that. i plan on going out more and approaching more. Im working on being a pua but sometimes afc tendencies still come out. but retrospectively i look at it as maybe i am coming off in congruent. although this girl is the type i am really attracted to, i am going to do more approaches so that i dont get one-itis with her. how should i continue with her?

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Author:	TonyShui [ Wed Feb 02, 2011 4:28 pm ]
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Since you asked to be friends , your road seems to go directly to the friend zone , so remember that next time to not ask about friends. You just did 90% of the stuff by going to her and saying what you said. You just need to edit a bit your opener and it would be ok. Ask her out to go somewhere and see how it goes and how she reacts and you will know if you're on the friend zone or not. Keep updating us, All the best, Tony

Author:	chill46 [ Wed Feb 02, 2011 5:32 pm ]
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went out to the store for some stuff and opened direct again. didnt go as well this time. I opened with "hi i just noticed you and you prob get this alot but i think your cute." she said thank you and turned away(she was working). Thanks for the tips guys i am going to keep working on this until i can get it right. I think i need to work on the delivery more. but i was wondering picking up women is suppose to be fun but as of right now i feel like i am just forcing myself to push thru my AA. do i just keep doing it and eventually it will become fun for me?

Author:	--Sky-- [ Wed Feb 02, 2011 6:43 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Direct opener daygame
Quote: so i was at college in class where there was this HB9 sitting a few seats away. after class ends she bolts out and coincidentally we were both headed the same way and she stopped at the bus stop and started to wait. I approached and opened with this: "Hi, i just noticed you and i dont want to be wierd and i know this might be pretty random and you probably get this alot, but i think you kinda cute. I would have regretted not coming over here and starting a conversation with you." (introductions). then i said we should be friends and she was like yea definitely. and i closed with a email and said do you have a facebook? and she said yea and then spelled her last name for me we chatted a bit more and she was saying how she actually doesnt get approached that often during the day and then i exited with it was nice meeting you but i have to go meet a friend soon. feedback appreciated You have fallen into the friend-zone. She probably gave you the email and facebook because you said you wanted to be friends. NEVER do that! You have to step out of the friend-zone. It's not easy i'll tell ya, but it works. If you want to know how to get out of the friend-zone just pm me.

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