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Author:  Nines&Dimes [ Mon Jan 24, 2011 2:31 am ]
Post subject:  How to respond to these
This past weekend, I approached 2 different girls on the dance floor. One girl backed up into me and basically started dancing on me, but acted like it was an accident. She proceeds to move away like five feet from me. I go over to her and say "You know, if you're going to bump into me like that you have to dance with me." She was with another girl and she says "I can't dance with you because this is my girlfriend." I honestly was caught off guard by that and had no idea what to say after. So I basically was just "Oh ok, well have fun with each other." and just bounced.

Then there was this cute blonde who seemed to be giving me IOI's so I go over to her and say "Dance with me." Again, this girl was with a girlfriend and she says "I'm dancing with my friend." Well her friend was definitley a motherhen as she was not remotley attractive. Instead of getting on the friends good side, I neg'd her without thinking and that definitley blew up in my face. I said "Well your friend isn't that good of a dancer, you should dance with me instead." The friend goes "That wasn't very funny." and she pulled the hot blonde close to her and danced in each others arms. I said something to try and recover and the motherhen was like "You're still talking?! go away."

Pretty harsh stuff I know, but it'll be good to learn from. Any input from you guys would be greatly appreciated :)
Author:  almoody6872 [ Mon Jan 24, 2011 3:00 am ]
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Befriend the motherhen.

Try saying " Well, you can't dance that well anyway. BUT YOUR FRIEND, now THAT'S dancing! I actually want to dance wit her now instead."

Negging the entire group results in being BLOWN OUT everytime. I know because I used to have of problem of over negging. Never Neg anyone other than the target. EVER. You can tease them, but never Neg.

All her friends should think you are the coolest and funnest guy ever! Trerat her friends like your favorite female cousin.
Author:  Nines&Dimes [ Mon Jan 24, 2011 3:04 am ]
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Yea I hear ya man. The whole negging the motherhen basically came out of nowhere. There was no rhyme or reason to it.
Author:  almoody6872 [ Mon Jan 24, 2011 3:22 am ]
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I used to have a problem with mother hens until I started treating them like my wingman. Then the two of you tease her group and AMOG any competition. She helps you!

But this is what calibration is all about man. Finding exactly what we did wrong, and learning exactly what we need to do next time.
Author:  bvanevery [ Mon Jan 24, 2011 5:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to respond to these
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Then there was this cute blonde who seemed to be giving me IOI's so I go over to her and say "Dance with me." Again, this girl was with a girlfriend and she says "I'm dancing with my friend."
"Then we all dance TOGETHER!!!" Exaggerated Slavic pose, try to do that Russian knee dance thing. Might take practice.

or

"NOT ANYMORE!!!" You whisk off the ugly friend, dancing a tremendous waltz with her. You come back to the target after you've danced her friend's ass off for 5 minutes.

or

"Ok, I'll cut in on the next set!" Go have fun, have a beer, come back in 15, then butt in and dance with your target.

Knee-jerk negging when you run out of material is for idiots. Negging is not your breathing room. You do not want to do it unless you're correcting self-centered, narcissistic behavior on the part of the target. Even then, you often want to wrap the neg in a velvet glove.
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The friend goes "That wasn't very funny." and she pulled the hot blonde close to her and danced in each others arms.
See? They are much smarter than you and did EXACTLY what you should have done with THEM. They could have been laughing WITH you, instead they were laughing AT you.
Author:  PickUpLines4Dummies [ Sun Jan 30, 2011 4:47 am ]
Post subject:  Perfect Time for a wingman
Sounds like the perfect time for a wing man to step in and take over. But to be completely honest it probably wouldn't have been worth it in the long run. You did all you could do. Maybe next time try opening before closing.
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