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Author:  divingsnake [ Mon Jan 10, 2011 8:52 pm ]
Post subject:  finaly made some approaches but need some help
Hello,

After reading a lot of stuff i finally started to make a few (only 2) approaches.
I did a few approaches before but that was more easy stuff like friends of people you know, or when i was realy realy drunk:p

But about this 2 i got some questions:

I was with 3 friends away for a weekend, so it was a good way to start because i got nothing to lose because a never go to that city.

The first night (friday) a friend was talking to a girl, she had another girlfriend but i wasn't attracted to her, another friend was so he started talking to her. and the third friend already left because he was tired so i tought fuck it. turned around a nice looking girl was smiling to me so i immediately walked to her and asked her some questions about the city, and what she studies etc.

So i can talk a lot but with this kind of subjects it is the longer i talk the more boring guy i look like so how can i start like touching her (not in a sexual way but just to get closer to something, i tought you call it kino?).

The second situation shows how new i'm to the game...
I was standing against a table and typing a text message to a friend, i noticed a (realy hot) girl watched to me and also grabbed her phone so she kind of followed me. before i know she was standing against my shoulder with her phone next to mine like i got a phone or something?, dont know exactly but of course it is positiv. In stead of start a conversation i looked a bit strange because i was suprised. so she put her glass against mine and walked a few steps away (now i think she felt like being rejected at that point and that was a good way to act friendly)

I was dancing a bit and she was constantly dancing at a very close distance of me. when someone walks trough the club she always choses to move to my side. maybe to give me chances to approach her.

But because i already waited like 10 minutes, i couldn't find some words to approach her.

So how can i "repair" a situation when i waited to long or when i might like her feel rejected.

And do i read this signals correct or am i to positiv.

Cheers,
Derk
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Mon Jan 10, 2011 9:31 pm ]
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Glad that you've decided to start putting what you learned to practice.

Your 1st mistake or misdeed was not talking to the girl in the 1st scenario because she wasnt attractive.

Bullshit!

Every woman in every social situation should be spoken to.

You didnt have to try pick her up,but at least show that you're social,well-aware and human.

Instead,you let your friend get the social proof a DHV from that girl.

2nd mistake is talking about mundane-boring stuff like school or work.

You should only converse on those topics if you're being humorous,busting on her or telling your own DHV stories.

Other exception is when you would've already lain her.
Author:  divingsnake [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 12:33 pm ]
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ok thanks!

more tips please!
Author:  Prince Charles [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:40 pm ]
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Oh, my God, I would love to be on your second situation! You just needed to gesture to her to give you her cellphone, type your number, call it, and save your number at her cellphone and save her number in yours! Put some funny nicknames. "I'm talking to my friends, I'll catch you later" Or talk to her right away, I don't know, the way you want it.

And by the way, I'm not a good dancer, but there's this video on youtube from mystery, this girl is showing of in front of him, who is leaning back against a column, so, he stand up and reach his at the shoulder's level and she grab him and she dance. And he does nothing. I think is a great trick.

I'm not a PUA, yet, but I'm positive this would work perfectly.

Big hug
Prince Charles.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 3:20 pm ]
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1. If you can't think of anything to say, then asking mundane questions is better than nothing at all. However, you can phrase a mundane question like "where are you from" into something more interesting by making it into a statement, like "you're TOTALLY from Nigeria I can tell!" Similarly cold reading like saying she looks like a professional girl or a lawyer type, will get to to both answer your question and also wonder/ask WHY you thought that about her, leading to her becoming more interested in you and what you think.

2. If a girl gives you any IOI like proximity, eye contact, a smile, welcoming body language, then just go up, say HI with a smile and introduce yourself. You already know she likes you so you really don't need any special crazy opener. After you have her name, use the above questions-as-SPAM / cold read techniques to transition into a normal conversation. Mix with some DHV stories about stuff that's going on in your life that's interesting/funny, and boom, you're having AN AWESOME INTERACTION with A HOT BABE :-)
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 8:31 pm ]
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Hey great advise Blondguy on turning mundane/boring/AFC'ish/interview-like questions into fun statements.

How the hell I havent figured that out(lmao)!?

Thanks Blondguy;I'd now incorporate those statement-like treads into my game.
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