First off, I'm new to this whole site, so hello everyone
Now for the reason I'm here. I work at a department store in electronics and there is a girl that works in the womens department. What would be a good way to spark up a conversation?
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| Author: | Straight Postin [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 6:14 am ] |
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First off, I'm new to this whole site, so hello everyone Now for the reason I'm here. I work at a department store in electronics and there is a girl that works in the womens department. What would be a good way to spark up a conversation?
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| Author: | Haifisch [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 2:01 pm ] |
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I would just go to her and say Hello. From that Moment on you have to Lokk what works best. The Problem is that you're not working in the same department and you won't have much business together. The only way I see to start a conversation is that just talk to her and you will find the best way of talking to her by just doing so. Tell her that you are impressed by the she does something special. |
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| Author: | Nayail [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 2:50 pm ] |
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If you haven't talked to her before, try to run into her in the break area or somewhere out of her department, then just say "hey don't you work in Women's? I work in electronics, I'm (name). So how do you like working here?" Then go from there. |
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| Author: | BridgeBurner [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 10:52 pm ] |
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eeek.. i donno about those other two approaches..... kinda lame (sorry guys) 1. as is always said.. NOT a good idea to game at work.. ive done this a buncha times and its always great fun til it goes bad.. btu i still never learn so im not gonna preach. 2. you have to be FUNNY... sarcastic... if you say any of the thigns the other guy said or run into her in the break room...youre "a coworker that prolli thinks im cute" to her. BORING.... unless YOU'RE fricking gorgeous why are you diff fr any other worker there that says hi cuz shes cute? 3. if its slow or you're on break and shes working and NOT busy.. open with something quick. "hey... " if u donno her well. say "you're... (name) ..right?" .. "im...(name)..... look uhm.... *look around as if checking to see that no one is around*(jokingly) then say "i cant fold a dress shirt to save my life... they always end up totally wrinkled and i have to rewash them... dont tell anyone tho. cuz i gotta keep this cool guy rep i have you kno? ... y mind givin me a quick demo.. you seem to know what you're doing around clothing..." let her show you.. if you have time. give it a whirl.. fuk it up like an origami swan then make a joke about it.. say thanks... ttyl and walk away... she wont forget that interaction... and if she was all smiles.. then turn around and be like "u know what.. you're pretty friendly i wanna talk to you again later.. *hand her ur cell already open to notepad* gimme ur num..ill TEXT you. " once she grabs it.. and make sure u hand it WHILE saying it cuz naturally she'll grab for it before hearing why she is.... make a quick joke while shes entering it.. something like "y'never know. when i might need more advice... i have a terrible time folding socks as well...sock drawer full of swans.. its like a poultry farm in there" if you cant get the numbr yet. just have interractions like this but start making them more personal.. about her, her life, her parents, school, etc.. understand her stress and offer advice etc.. til your comfy enuff to get the num... be as close to funny andsarcastic as YOU can be.. but im telling you. standard office chat will NOT work.. at ALL in anyway..... last girl i gamed at work. i was training her and i had a week with her... second work day i had her num and we were slapping and pushing each other(playfully) and 4th day i kissed her.. 3rd day i discovered shes into religion... so i had her tell me stories about certain angels or whatever and then stories from when she was younger and why she believes in it. etc... gets very personal that way. good luck.. let us know how you make out... |
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| Author: | Nayail [ Wed Dec 08, 2010 12:40 am ] |
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Let me elaborate on my first post. I'm going to both agree and disagree with bridge. I agree, gaming girls you work with is usually not a good idea. I also agree that you need to be funny. Where I disagree is the time frame and intensity he is suggesting. Remember you are at work, in a professional setting, with a co worker you haven't met. Work environments are a lot different than clubs, bars, malls, etc. You are going to probably see this girl everyday, she's not just someone you happen to see out and about. Make the introduction, keep it professional at first, maybe a little slight humor. Keep it light, you don't want to come off as the office clown. Build some comfort, connection and familiarity. Over the course of a few days, you can work some game and gauge her reactions. If she seems receptive then advance and escalate. And by all means use some of Bridges tactics. If not then withdrawal. I would never recommend trying to get a number from a co worker you just met. If she declines, is not interested then it may create an awkward situaton. Depending on the girl, she may, and could claim sexual harrassment. Good luck |
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| Author: | BridgeBurner [ Wed Dec 08, 2010 1:32 am ] |
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well.. to clarify this: my whole spiel was a walkthrough of the perfect scenerio.... give her a memorable interaction is the point.... if you keep it professional you're going to die... here is the EXACT moment where i made a move on a coworker.... she was sitting beside me at the computer and i was showing her stuff i crossed my left leg over my right and my shoe hit the top of her thigh leaving a print.. i said.. ooop.. sorry.. she brushed it off and said no worries...i put my foot down...i ACCIDENTALLY put it up a few mins later same thing..... oops sorry brushed it off.... a few mins later i accidentally did it again and i was just like "nope. i got this one" and i brushed off her thigh, she looked at me shocked and laughed and said "wow cant believe u just did that" and i said.."least i could do" then we started talking about each other cuz the professional tension was gone... but yes absolutely there is a chance for harassment and all sortsa awkward things... so proceed with caution but my whole bit there was more saying here is the ideal way to do it..... try it.. maybe not word for word but its gotta be memorable.. kinda funny. kinda charming.... and as i mentioned if she laughs you CAN just say.. thanks.. ttyl. and not go a for a number.. go for it on the third interraction.... etc... i was more saying approach it this way rather then "hey im tom from electronics. how are you? good...good. ya me too..... k bye" ..... whats the point of that? and guage her reactions and body language.. you should be able to tell if shes biting...this is a scenario where you want to be sure she is digging it and not have the plow through attitud as in the club... i agree with that for sure... |
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| Author: | Nayail [ Wed Dec 08, 2010 2:14 am ] |
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Quote: then we started talking about each other cuz the professional tension was gone...
Exactly the point I was making...I think we both made some good points that the OP can use and build on for his specific situation. That's why this forum is so good... |
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| Author: | ALPHA LiON [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 12:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need help for opener at work |
Quote: First off, I'm new to this whole site, so hello everyone
Welcome to the forum Now for the reason I'm here. I work at a department store in electronics and there is a girl that works in the womens department. What would be a good way to spark up a conversation? When approaching girls in your work or anywhere during the day, try to keep the conversation natural (ie no Crazy nightclub style KINO openers). Firstly look at her.. Here's a good mental list to run through.. 1) What is she Doing? 2) What is she Wearing? 3) What is happening nearby her? Think of something to spark up the conversation, then spice it up with some cocky humour. e.g HB: (Is standing bored staring off into space) PUA: "Don't work too hard now.." HB: (laughs)  PUA: "I'm (name).. and you are?" PUA: "So (her name).. besides skiving at work do you have any other hobbies?" |
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| Author: | PUA Slave [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 12:15 pm ] |
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FMAC Find meet attract Close. Find her, observe what she is up to what she is doing Meet her, confident and talk about why she is here, what she is up to, how is she Attract her by always talking about her, not about you In time, close it |
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