So, you're going through openers. You're browsing the web for lines that can get you 'in', that can get you through that first barrier, so that the women you want will actually listen to what you have to say. Great, I'm glad, you should endeavour to have women listen to what you have to say.
'Hey guys, my friend's just moved here from Manchester...'
'Is there more to you than a pretty face?'
'Oh my god, did you guys see the fight outside?'
Tried them?
Did they work?
Sometimes yes, sometimes no?
Does that maybe tell you something?
Here's a secret:
There is no ice.
There is no proverbial, mysterious barrier that you need to break with these openers. Eliminate that concept from your mind, because it is a very powerful limiting belief.
If somebody speaks to you in a totally relaxed, natural manner, as if there is no ice, you will naturally respond as if there is no ice.
Think about it; ever had someone make a joke when you were stood next to them in a lift, or at a coffee shop, or something? You just laugh, right? You don't even think about it, you just laugh. It's natural.
It works just the same in set, I promise.
Just remember,
there is no ice.
Behave as such!
Skylark
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