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Author:	palacim [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 12:25 am ]
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Hi I have done some reading and the more I read the less focus'd i become! before I used togo out clubbing and knew what to say and had couple of difrent methods to approach woman ... now i know alot more about the pua game and have defo advanced my skills but the thing is i feel very distracted in my mind and have lost power of my concentration ! i sometime dnt knw what to say ... i just forget everything ... is less is more ? how do become organized and concentrated again ? do u guys write things down ? do you have list of your openers? top DLV that applies to you ? do you have list of DLV specific to yourself and write them down and review your progress by reviewing them once a while ? i guss im lost by volume of the information, by the way im hitting on many many girls both offline and online ... please help to bring the pace back to my mind! i guess the more i knw the harder it is to apply! maybe its just normal or its just me ... whats happenin to me

Author:	fenixz [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 1:59 am ]
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Would it be possible that you have a few rehearsed "lines" that you plan to use in a conversation, so you are waiting for the opportunity to do so, hence resulting in your lack of concentration? That was my rookie mistake. If you are constantly thinking about her opinion of you based on what you say, it would also make you extremely nervous, which would also cause you to lose your focus. I know it is easier said than done, but you have to relax and take your time to build rapport in a conversation, then you would feel at ease talking and all the attraction routines can (most likely) come naturally. Hope that helps!

Author:	Keksman [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 2:17 am ]
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I would discard all that shit you've read around here. Well okay, keep 5% of it, including my post of course There are two approaches. Either, you can read up on how to act, talk, dress, carry yourself, DHV, etc. Essentially, you try to consciously to control all the details of human interaction. Or, you can fix your inner game and let your subconscious do all that work for you, leaving you to enjoy the moment. All that info about EC, BL, DHV, push-pull, kino, etc. is a way of trying to pretend you are something. Instead, you could become that something and stop pretending. For example, go travel, meet people, do some crazy shit, pick up exciting hobbies. Then you can talk about them passionately rather than trying to manufacture a DHV story. Be confident, working out helps tremendously, and stop worrying about BL. Be unapologetic about your interest in women and you don't have to worry about the rules of EC. The best thing is that the process will actually improve your lifestyle in general, not just PU.

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