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| Author: | rounder898 [ Thu Nov 25, 2010 9:57 am ] |
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Hey so I just posted a few days ago about a girl in my class. I may only have 1 or 2 more times to talk to her before the semester ends and itd like to hang out with her after the semester is over. I got a good tip on my last post. (it would be really cool if you read my first post too) I'm wondering whats a good way to say to her after class "hey, i know we havent talked too much this semester, but i'd like to get to know you better would you like to get lunch sometime this week? (doesnt have to be lunch but i just used it as an example) I appreciate any feedback and I'm just blown away by this website i mean thousands of guys helping one another reach a stranger's goal of meeting a beautiful woman. I'm new to all this, which you can probably tell. |
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| Author: | ziggy*dust [ Sun Nov 28, 2010 1:50 am ] |
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If the end of the smester is coming up them maybe you to could form a study group and get ready for finals. You could meet at the library a few times a week or anywhere around campus. You could even play off getting some food or a drink in there if you work at it. Say you are at the library late and both your brains are fried, say " wow i could realy use a drink/ bite to eat. First rounds on me." If she says no and passes then you can defnitily make plans to do that another nite. |
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| Author: | Conker [ Sun Nov 28, 2010 4:53 pm ] |
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Don't say "Hey I know we haven't talked much, but..." this doesn't need a "disclaimer" attached to it. A great way to do this would be to start a conversation with her about the break, and make a conversation where you both talk about what your plans are for the break. Eg. "Can't wait for that break." "Yeah!" "Have you got any special plans?" but of course in your own way. I reckon you can bring this up as early as the next conversation if you want to. Then you can work "hanging out" into the conversation. Just be sure you're relaxed and confident, and not pushy. Get her number for hanging out. If you're relaxed, it will work. Swapping numbers is no problem, people do it all the time for lesser reasons. |
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| Author: | rounder898 [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 8:17 am ] |
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Hey thanks Conker. I appreciate good advice like that. I know i'm new to this and that advice will help instead of bashing me lol like ive seen some posts. But seriously thanks and for future reference what exactly is a disclaimer in PUA language (im new to the terms as well) |
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| Author: | Conker [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 2:41 pm ] |
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Hahah it's not a term, I mean it literally. Disclaimer, you know, eg. "The following statements are soley the opinion of the speaker and are not endorsed by company X in any way..." etc. by starting out with "Hey I know we haven't talked much" to me it sounds like a disclaimer, you're effectively saying "Hey I know you will think i'm wierd for asking you out so soon, so I better warn you that I agree, we haven't talked much..." don't enter that frame of mind. The frame of mind is you being positive and happy to invite her along to something. |
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| Author: | seins345 [ Tue Nov 30, 2010 12:57 am ] |
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Say "Hi i think you are cute (smile) lets walk and talk." Best opener ever, used every time on school, if she likes she will walk with u, if she doesnt just walk away, you are not her type, but if u walk with her dont be awkward and say nothing or say crappy things like "hey proffesor B is so creepy", be interested in her, ask her things that u want in a girl, you need to ask urself that, what i want in a girl? that she likes videogameS? does she have a boyfriend? that she lives near my house? that she loves watching my favorite tv program? example "do you have a boyfriend?" "do you like chicken nuggets? i love those things".... ask her those things and listen, if she ask things be honest, and if u really like the things she do then say "i like u lets have a date", but only if u really think she have the things u like in a girl, not only because she is pretty, thats for loosers who cant have nice ass often |
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