There are a few different techniques you can use.
The first thing is to make sure that you are having fun, and in a group and opening sets. You want to make sure that the set of HB9/10s has definitely noticed you, because you're the one who all the girls seem to know, you are having the best time, and they are intrigued about who you are.
From this position, you can do one of three things.
The lowest risk strategy is to merge sets (group theory). Basically you open a set of 6/7s nearby with an opinion opener, and then when you've got them arguing about whatever the hell it is, open the 9/10 group nearby and get them in on the debate. This way the whole thing is very casual and under the radar and thus there is little chance of initial rejection.
The medium risk strategy is to be in-set with the 6/7s, and force an IOI from the 9/10s by catching their eye, smiling, and then winking or raising your glass or tipping your hat, etc. If they smile back (or break eye contact downwards and look back or blush), you can then go in and approach directly. However, if they look away without smiling or frown or turn their back to you, then you probably will not be able to approach. Remember, you're more likely to get an IOI back if you're in a high-value position, i.e. with girls, in the VIP section, on the stage with the DJ, talking with the manager, etc.
The high risk strategy is just to open directly with massive amounts of confidence (body language, tonality, etc.). Again, the higher value you've presented yourself to be before the approach, the more likely this is going to work. Direct game, especially in clubs, is generally a low percentage strategy, but high in reward because if you do stay in-set, it is very much ON.
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