PUA Forum :: How can I develop my conversational skills?

Personally I'd have to say get a life (no disrespect intended). People that are really into something (baseball, poetry, anime, etc.) always have stuff to talk about. everything else will come from inself from experience and judging what i appropriate to say to who(important)

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I have the same issue, and I'm a guitarist. It's not really about having a hobby, but having a larger social life. Just one night of going out with friends will give you a few stories. So imagine doing it a lot?

But that doesn't solve our problem, because it's not about telling stories. I guess you just have to be constantly socially active with people you feel equal to.

Join some sort of men's social club. I was in a fraternity in college and it taught me a lot about quick comebacks when someone starts making fun of your mom or girl. It sounds lame, but go chat online. No lie, you can be anyone you want because without being scared of what the girl thinks you look like. It's a good place to start. I'm not mPUA, so you can take it as you see it, but I don't tell things I think in theory will work, only what I've done myself that did work. It worked wonders on this me growing up as a kid with low self esteem.

Author:	kvee [ Wed Sep 26, 2007 5:55 pm ]
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Ok so is there anything I can do or practice my conversational skills so I can come up with funnier, wittier come backs or jokes or something like that? Like what should I focus on? Here is the thing I can be pretty cool and my game can be superb AT TIMES... but what I want is to always be coming up with the right thing to say at the right time ALWAYS. How do I practice to get it to that level? Kind of like I lift weights to get big , how do I lift weights to become a funnier, wittier, more interesting guy to talk to? I know its in me but how do I bring it out all the time??

Author:	Axxent [ Wed Sep 26, 2007 6:23 pm ]
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In the beginning it is less intimidating to talk to "the guys". Just strike up a convo with a couple of new guys or the bartender. This way there's no anxiety and you can just practice your skills and learn or try some of the comebacks. Plus you might recruit one as a wingman if you have to go at it alone.

Author:	hollywoodinpa [ Tue Oct 16, 2007 12:25 am ]
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I think the other PUA has a good start with the talking to guys thing.But if you really want to learn to be witty you have to hang out with witty ppl like other alfa males so you can feed off them. Also nothing is better than practiceing on not so attractive girls this way you won't get all those gitters. and it does't matter to you if you crash and burn. So talk to lots and lots of women then work your way from the 6's to the 10's Do you see what I'm saying? This is very affective.If your the shy inverted type.I'm sure others will have great advice to.

Author:	Alekc [ Tue Oct 16, 2007 12:42 am ]
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Personally I'd have to say get a life (no disrespect intended). People that are really into something (baseball, poetry, anime, etc.) always have stuff to talk about. everything else will come from inself from experience and judging what is appropriate to say to who(important).

Author:	Mike [ Tue Oct 16, 2007 1:11 am ]
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Quote: Personally I'd have to say get a life (no disrespect intended). People that are really into something (baseball, poetry, anime, etc.) always have stuff to talk about. everything else will come from inself from experience and judging what i appropriate to say to who(important) I have the same issue, and I'm a guitarist. It's not really about having a hobby, but having a larger social life. Just one night of going out with friends will give you a few stories. So imagine doing it a lot? But that doesn't solve our problem, because it's not about telling stories. I guess you just have to be constantly socially active with people you feel equal to.

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Author:	masterPUA [ Tue Oct 16, 2007 3:58 am ]
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i used to be a quiet guy. but after telling myself, if someone said this to me, how would i react? i got out of that stage, lol i guess you could call me a loudmouth, but im never a jerk. anyways, talk to everyone you meet, try to say things to keep the convo going, and think how you would react if someone said it to you.

Author:	jjjoness [ Tue Nov 20, 2007 3:11 am ]
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Quote: Quote: Personally I'd have to say get a life (no disrespect intended). People that are really into something (baseball, poetry, anime, etc.) always have stuff to talk about. everything else will come from inself from experience and judging what i appropriate to say to who(important) I have the same issue, and I'm a guitarist. It's not really about having a hobby, but having a larger social life. Just one night of going out with friends will give you a few stories. So imagine doing it a lot? But that doesn't solve our problem, because it's not about telling stories. I guess you just have to be constantly socially active with people you feel equal to. Conversation is too easy. What you need to first is stop thinking. What you are doing is seeing girls, and then thinking to yourself "what am I going to say?, What if she doesn't like me?, What if she says m stupid?". If you do open, you think "Ok what do I say next?, what routine do I run?, What do i say?". This is the best part of the pick up, say ANYTHING. Talk about travel, the bathroom style tiles you are stepping on, the cleanliness of the sidewalk outside the store... ANYTHING. The other day I was in a pizza shop and overheard two HB8's talking about the steak and cheese, they didn't know what to get. I walked up and suggested they get the buffalo chicken. They asked if it was good and I said yes... but I have sophisticated taste, I can't necessarily say the same for you. Just talk to girls like you talk to your best friends, minus the crudeness and you will be fine. But if you genuinely have no stories, then listen to these guys. The only way you will have more stories to tell is if you live them. The on way to live them is to, well live them. True stories are internalized and will be with you forever.

Author:	Kellen [ Sat Nov 24, 2007 2:02 am ]
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Join some sort of men's social club. I was in a fraternity in college and it taught me a lot about quick comebacks when someone starts making fun of your mom or girl. It sounds lame, but go chat online. No lie, you can be anyone you want because without being scared of what the girl thinks you look like. It's a good place to start. I'm not mPUA, so you can take it as you see it, but I don't tell things I think in theory will work, only what I've done myself that did work. It worked wonders on this me growing up as a kid with low self esteem.

Author:	LoveMonkey [ Wed Nov 28, 2007 5:56 am ]
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Stories are key, go do stuff and you will get fun stories to tell people and engage them into your conversations!!

Author:	Alekc [ Wed Nov 28, 2007 8:05 pm ]
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Quote: Join some sort of men's social club. I was in a fraternity in college and it taught me a lot about quick comebacks when someone starts making fun of your mom or girl. It sounds lame, but go chat online. No lie, you can be anyone you want because without being scared of what the girl thinks you look like. It's a good place to start. I'm not mPUA, so you can take it as you see it, but I don't tell things I think in theory will work, only what I've done myself that did work. It worked wonders on this me growing up as a kid with low self esteem. its true cutting ass and watching too much tv are great for comebacks and snap decisions(also putting a point on something, knowing when to give up, being funny)

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