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Author:	reg123 [ Sun Oct 10, 2010 2:07 pm ]
Post subject:	Approaching as I leave
Approach 1: AO: This is a girl I met the last day of the office. She’s very hot. I went up to her, just to chat to her, to get experience talking to good looking women. She was down to earth, intelligent, and therefore more attractive. I knew at the time she had a boyfriend (though she never mentioned this in the conversation). I thought we hit it off, we played a game where I would guess her origin (she has a mixed foreign background), she told me she had been in the music industry but left it wanting more in life, talked to me about her job, etc. However the negative I would put down, is I may have put her on a pedestal, as I was really impressed with her beauty, brains, and her wish for something more, and I let her know I was impressed. She did start saying she was turning red (though she actually wasn’t). I got her phone number and facebook id with the excuse, that I would be back in a month, and that we should have coffee together. I have to say I did not put out my own views to her as well, nor did she ask me much about myself. I texted her, linking back to the part where he had the guessing game, letting her know in a playful way, that her location of where she is from (as she specified), was slightly wrong. I got no answer. Also I tried linking up to her on facebook as a friend the day after, and several days later she still had not responded. I don’t mind that, she obviously is not interested. The reason I am putting this statement up, is to ask where I went wrong, what else should I have done or not done to build her attraction. Plan from my point of view – Really my new work is too far away to go and see her, and when I do go back to my old workplace once a month, she’s not in on those days. Since she has not reciprocated, I feel no need to invest any further time in her. Approach 2: LM: This was also a girl I finally had the guts to approach on the last day. She is of foreign origin (3-4 generations back), and she is a good looking girl. I used the excuse to talk to her, as she was going to be joining the department I was leaving. Anyway, I thought we had a ok rapport, she talked about her job aims – wanted to be more involved with public well being, her origin (which someone else told me), although 10-20 min into the conversation, she needed to leave, so I got her phone number with the excuse of if she has any problems with the new job to contact me. She said that she not be at work the next day, as she had an appointment The next day, I text her like this – hey X spanish, i hope ur enjoying ur massage or whatever u r doing, I’ll let u know something I forgot to handover for the job. To which she replied within a few min: I am not having the massage, and i don’t like the sarcasm, my last name is Y [my comment: she did not like the tag Spanish/origin]. Send me over the details. I thought whoah – touchy isn’t she – so I decided to respond (maybe I should not have) – I sent the text to make u smile, not upset u. I apologise if it came out wrong. There is F at work that needs to be done. I feel bad that u r upset, I was going to run 4 miles today, but now in ur honour I am going to run 4.5 miles. After this she apologised, said she was in a bad mood doing G. I then sent her a message saying no problems, then wrote a joke for her, told her to have a good day. She did not respond to this. The next day I txted her, in a light hearted way – Saying I ran the four miles,but the additional 0.5 was really hard, and that I might need a massage, and did she do the task I h/o. No response. Question: What did I do wrong, and how could I build up attraction. Approach 3: NA: This is a very good looking girl, that I knew briefly knew about at my college, though we never really spent much time chatting. I found her on facebook – linked with her, though I did not think of talking to her, until a later time. About a year after fb, she posted on her fb, about what the meaning of life is. To which I responded, and I sent her a few messages on facebook every so often to help her to answer this question (we are from the same religious background). She is not a strict religious person. However whenever I asked to meet up with her she did not respond. Very rarely she would she get back to me, after one-two weeks after my response. My thoughts were she was not attracted to me. However I saw her at a charity dinner, she was with her family. I looked in her direction, but though I think she knew I was there, she did not look back. So I said ok, that just confirms her lack of attraction to me. So I went to sit with a friend, and starting chatting another girl up. I had to leave early, as I got up, I looked back in the girl NA direction, and our eyes, met, and she was smiling. I thought she looked very attracted to me at that point, it was just a gut feeling. I did not go over to speak to her, as I had to duck out. I mailed her another point about life, mentioned I thought I saw her twin at the charity dinner, and not her, she did not respond. Later that week, I then sent a joke video mail, and the very next day, she responded asking why I thought it wasn’t her at the dinner, and she mentioned that particular occasion where I left early. This brought back me to the eye contact memory I had with her. I responded, why I left early and why I thought it her twin (she does not have a twin, this was more playful banter) Question: I do not know is she is interested in someone else, she is very good looking, so that is a total possibility. How do I progress the relationship to one of going out and meeting. I tried asking her out, before, and no luck. Do u think the fact I sent her some messages about religion (in answer to her question), and she is not totally religious, may make her iffy about me? At the end of the day, she is not into religion as much as me. Plan: Currently, I will ask her to come to another event, where she can bring her family. My thoughts about this relationship, is she is probably interested in someone else. She responds with one message to my two, and they take a long time on fb. I could potentially do a do or die – ask her for her number, and ask her to go out with me. What do u think? I am currently working on three-four other sets, which are more than ready to go out with me, some of who I am seeing at the moment. However they r colleagues I knew relatively well in the past, though I did not start dating them until after work. The above women mentioned are more first practiced getting numbers on women I don’t really know within 10 minutes of the conversation. I aim to meet more, but need to work out my faults, so I can get success with them.

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