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Author:  silverito [ Fri Aug 13, 2010 9:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Basic situation - street and IOI, how do you open?
Situation is very common and simple. Imagine street, you walk and she walks towards you. You notice her, she notices you and gives straight IOI. Does not matter what IOI(usually fixing her hair). So you know she likes you. How do you open? She passes by you in a second, so you must be quick to think of something to say and be quick to say it.
I know simple hey is good here (because its works since she showed that she likes you), but I am looking for more sugestions.
Thanks
Author:  dw3llz [ Sun Aug 15, 2010 1:17 pm ]
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Hold your arm out, and stop her like you have a purpose!

Then say ANYTHING. If it's in day, I recommend go direct. "Hey! I just noticed how beautiful you were and had to stop to meet you, I'm dw3llz."

Or another fun one, blame your friend! Once again, stop her with a purpose! "Hey listen. Me and my buddy were walking and I happened to glance over and see you so I commented to my buddy about how absolutely gorgeous you are. Then he said if you don't go talk to her, I'm not giving you a ride home, so here we are :)."

She will laugh and you can continue talking. "He said if you were evil, mean, or just no fun he also wouldn't give me a ride home, so be a good girl ;)." Let's you guys have some fun with the conversation. (Credits to daygame.com. Check out the site, lots of great ideas.)
Author:  PlayHer Man [ Sun Aug 15, 2010 4:15 pm ]
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I think this is one of the best situations to approach a woman.

The best opening is asking for directions like:

"Excuse me.... do you know if there is a good pizza place around here?"

This will at least STOP her so you have a chance to chat her up. Once she give you directions or tell you she doesn't know the area you switch it up:

"Well thanks for your help.... by the way you're really cute. Whats your name?"

And go from there.....
Author:  Melodical [ Sun Aug 15, 2010 4:52 pm ]
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Try "hi do you know whereabouts the nearest......[pause with full eye contact]..............when was the last time you were swept of your feet and into a whirlwind romance of desire and passion to make you feel butterflies inside?........Starbuck's is?" [stay silent now until she responds]

The method is mildly hypnotic with a bit of cold read.After she responds invite her there.
Author:  erezlg [ Sun Aug 15, 2010 10:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Basic situation - street and IOI, how do you open?
The easiest way is to ask her opinion about something.
Every woman has strong opinions, and they aren’t afraid to
share them! (Particuarly when they come to relationships!)

Good pick up lines work like this, for example. Say
something to the woman, like this, Hi, I need you opinion on
something, do you think it is normal for a woman to try to
time a pregnancy so that her baby is born within a
particular zodiac sign? I would really like to hear the
opinion of a woman about this subject.
Author:  silverito [ Mon Aug 16, 2010 12:26 am ]
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Opinion opener in this situation? :) I don't think it is necessary here :)
Thanks for replies, waiting for more since its one of the most common situations that happens to almost everyone :)
Author:  erezlg [ Mon Aug 16, 2010 5:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Basic situation - street and IOI, how do you open?
i just aking her for her opinion no matter what
Author:  silverito [ Mon Aug 16, 2010 1:01 pm ]
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Sounds fair, its your game :) However there is absolutely no need to ask for opinion when she gives you clear signs of interest. In fact it would look weird in this particular situation - you move towards her minding your own business and when you see her suddenly you remember that you "need" to ask for some opinion :lol:
Author:  daddy347 [ Wed Aug 18, 2010 2:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Basic situation - street and IOI, how do you open?
Quote:
Situation is very common and simple. Imagine street, you walk and she walks towards you. You notice her, she notices you and gives straight IOI. Does not matter what IOI(usually fixing her hair). So you know she likes you. How do you open? She passes by you in a second, so you must be quick to think of something to say and be quick to say it.
I know simple hey is good here (because its works since she showed that she likes you), but I am looking for more sugestions.
Thanks
Remember that 90% of this is NOT what you say, that's just an exterior. Smile, walk up to her, stop, make eye contact, say Hi. Anything after that is irrelevant, but an opener can help you by removing the concern about what to say next. Any opener works, use whatever opener you've used in the past. A safe one is "Can you recommend any clothing stores that sell men's clothing." For women this is surprisingly hard.
Author:  LushPUA [ Wed Aug 18, 2010 2:35 am ]
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ok, where to start... it's not exactley "neccisarry" to open with an opinion, but it may be benificial. To start you don't know if she is in a hurry or not, you can easily ask

"Excuse me, I have been debating my friend on a matter all week and I need a female perspective, are you in a hurry?"

this tells you a few things

1. was the ioi real or in your head

2. is she in a hurry, going to work, on a lunch break etc...

you can open with ANY opinion opener, mid-way through this you can then say something along the lines of:

"I'm actually somewhat pressed for time, but, I'm really intrested in what you have to say on the matter. would you like to finish this conversation at *insert establishment here*? we can kill two birds with one stone" (which somewhat shows worth, also makes it seem that you aren't begging for her atenton, she can easily say no)

if she says no you can easily number-close from here or....

if she says she has time, you just got ioi #2, are set up for a k-close, and have succesfully issolated the target. if she goes with you feel free to transiton to any play you want from there, wait for more ioi's and feel out wether it will be a k-close or not (rule of thumb is 3 ioi's, if it's daytime I would go for 4-5 and would suggest a light kiss rather than an overbearing one. also, food for thought; choose somewhere close) at the end of the conversation you can go in several different directions (number close is in the bag at that point)

one thing I'm actualy concerned with, reading through the other posts, is the number of people that are saying to us phisical compliments. wether you believe in mystery method or not, one thing wee can all agree on is tat an HB7-10 are, conservitavley, phisically complinmented around 15 times a day. I would suggest compliments such as:

1. You're just so radient
2. you have a get air about you
3. you seem so full of energy.. etc etc

We don't want to be just another statistic (one of the x ammount of people that have hit on her that day) but hey, if phisical compliments are working for you go on and keep on using them lol... well thats just my 2 cents on the matter

Stay fresh 8) ,

Lush
Author:  silverito [ Wed Aug 18, 2010 1:21 pm ]
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To each their own. I am not going to use complicated or opinion openers here because it will look weird. In this situation she already opened you by giving you approach invitation. In this situation 90%+++ of the time simple "hey how you doing" does the job. I am asking for other simple opening lines just for one single reason - I hate to say hey how you doing" because all of the other guys says that.
And again - you don't need any complicated openers because you are already in before you said something. Its ON if you say simple "Hi". Only reason is that everyone else says the same and I would like to use something different.

So basicly something witty/funny/situational/natural/not too complicated thats is not used by every other guy (like hey how you doing) would do the job.
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