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Author:  1hitaquitter [ Sun Sep 16, 2007 8:25 pm ]
Post subject:  how to pick up a girl whose dancing?
I went sarging friday night and all the HBs where dancing and didn't know how to put game on them. How would you do that? they are so into dancing, how the hell.
Author:  Chikito [ Sun Sep 16, 2007 8:29 pm ]
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search the forum.
Author:  PeepingTom [ Tue Sep 18, 2007 7:09 pm ]
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start grinding fool
Author:  diversemannen [ Tue Sep 18, 2007 9:04 pm ]
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well either u can wait for them to get tired, or u could START DANCING! u dont need game on the floor.
i dont know the first thing about dancing, but i just go with the flow, a good excuse to do less dancemoves is to hold a drink in ur hand, then u can just rock with the beat a little.

if ur good enough u can get a k-close right there on the dancefloor, without even saying a word. if u get a girl dancing with u and she seems into u, u should try this move kiss-close-technique-ive-used-before-vt6292.html
u dont have to say a word, she knows where it's going and if she's ok with it u'll know, if not, u'll really know!
Author:  Rye Lee [ Tue Sep 18, 2007 9:14 pm ]
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I used to be afraid to spend much time on the dance floor because I didn't think I knew the first thing about dancing, but guess what, ITS A CLUB! They aren't really dancing, they are club dancing, its two completely different things. There are definitely exceptions to the rule and I might get hell from some of the guys who know some good dance moves, but I have a hard time just incorporating the swing moves that I know. Taking a drink on the floor and rocking back and forth won't get you women most of the time, you don't look like you're having a great time unless you're surrounded by friends and smiling and such. Just get out there, stop worrying about what anyone thinks, turn off your brain and then just start going to the music. I bust out some ridiculous moves and just when I catch a girl looking at me doing something stupid I just I look her in the eye give her a one sided grin and maybe wink. I usually get a big laugh or smile in return and sometimes they come over and start grinding against me. My favorite move on the dance floor is to take a girl's hand and you do a half spin with her (most girls tend to go for a full spin, so you have to take control and stop them) and then you pull them tight to you so they're back is facing you and you have your arm across their stomach while holding their hand. You dance with them like this for a second, then you spin them back away and let go. You can use it like a false take away if she is getting pretty interested and you turn away a bit like you aren't too interested in dancing with her after that and she will try to impress you by grinding against you again. You can always throw in a "Hey, we just met, slow down" when she does that.
Author:  sandman808 [ Wed Sep 19, 2007 12:14 pm ]
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I personally dont know of any clubs that allow drinks on the dance floor, but that's not important. It's just not a good idea IMO. Dropping the drink or spilling on someone would just DLV too much.

As for dancing, I vote a big "NO" to ridiculous dance moves and trying to peacock with them if you're not actually good. Youtube the clip from the movie "Hitch" where Hitch is teaching the guy how to dance. If you're a beginner STAY IN THE ZONE.
Author:  TheDonkMan [ Thu Sep 20, 2007 5:35 am ]
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If you don't know what the fuck you're doing, do like me: STAY OFF the floor. And, if you do get onto the floor, LEAVE THE DRINK BEHIND.

It's weak to bring a drink to the floor - a majority of those bringing drinks to the floor do so for one out of two reasons; 1) "I need to get shitfaced / stay shitfaced or I'm too much of a pussy to be up here" and 2) "I know I'm not good so I use the glass as an excuse and/or to look cool"

Don't DLV yourself on purpose. Just my 2cp.
Author:  Tripdogg5 [ Thu Sep 20, 2007 8:09 am ]
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One low risk opener I sometimes use is just go up to her and say "you look like you know what your doing" and possibly neg her about not dancing with any guys. Then ask her name and introduce yourself. That'll at least get you in.

There's one fun thing I used, with a prop tho. Some SoCo girls were giving out beads at a bar and I got one. So when I bounced to a different bar with a dance floor I saw this two-set of HB8's, a blonde and a brunette dancing with eachother. I just pretended to be walking past the blonde, then i stopped behind her and said "hold still for a sec" and then put the beads around her neck from behind and said "those are for you". That at got me a big smile and an introduction from the blonde. But the set failed because as I talked with briefly with the blonde, the brunette was showing major obstable behavior so I just ejected. But that's another useful idea if you stock up on cheap beads, lol.
Author:  PrettyBoy41 [ Mon Sep 24, 2007 4:02 am ]
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if you want to dance, ask! some girls will dance with you anyways, but you have a better chance of not being shoved off if you do. it creeps a lot of them out if you dont.
Author:  Purity [ Mon Sep 24, 2007 5:38 am ]
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1. Make eye contact (make sure that you get a IOI)
2. Reach out your hand
3. Pull her in
4. Dance

Then get some loving!
Author:  davidshankle [ Mon Sep 24, 2007 10:08 am ]
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Dancing is the way to go. I've seen guys go up to girls that they've never seen before in their life, start grinding, and without one word they're making out in the corner 5 minutes later. There's no explanation.... club dancing, assuming you don't get rejected, is just constant IOI exchange. But don't get too excited and dance too long... you should be the one to suggest leaving the floor. You don't want to be the creep that just wants to spend an hour pre-cumming in your boxers at the expense of the ass portion of her skirt now do you?

and like they said, leave the drink.... there's nothing like bud light running down the back her neck to make sure you don't get another dance all night... from anyone. Yeah, every girl that just saw that display will only dance with you if they feel like being douced with beer.
Author:  sandman808 [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 2:14 pm ]
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Please rate and / or give constructive criticism on these approaches:

1) Find HB target. Dance in the same vicinity while ignoring her. Create a circle and bust out a routine. Go up to her after and say, "let's dance"

2) Get 2 female friends and ask them to wing by dancing on you and making girl jealous. Or just use any 2 random HB as pawns. Do this by HB target. After they eject, say to her, "let's dance" (how about "if you're lucky I'll save you a dance" ?)

She's a 9+ , so I think it's pretty AFCish to just go up and try to dance with her. I need either the social proof / jealousy / frame setting first IMO. thoughts?
Author:  T8SIG92 [ Sat Sep 29, 2007 1:22 am ]
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I personally dont know of any clubs that allow drinks on the dance floor, but that's not important. It's just not a good idea IMO. Dropping the drink or spilling on someone would just DLV too much.
lol, i dont know of any dance clubs that FORBID you from bringing a drink on the dance floor. and i see plenty of people bringing drinks on the floor, men women, gaming or not!
Author:  L.A. Tripp [ Sat Sep 29, 2007 7:04 pm ]
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Sandman, which of those ideas you use depends on your personal confidence level. Your confidence determines which one you could pull off, if either.

And, yes, DTM, I echo your statement. I don't know of any clubs that DON'T allow drinking on the floor either. I have them spilled on me frequently by others dancing.
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