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| Author: | Rye [ Sat Sep 15, 2007 4:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | my club experience |
so i found that the more wasted i got, the worse my game got, which was a surprise to me. it wasn't the confidence part that was a problem, it was thinking of all the shit i have been reading about these past few days. i did not have good game. although, i noted some failures and successes throughout the night.. "I am going to be honest with you.." = bad move, i was going to say how much of a horrible dancer this HB9 was but she stuck her hand out completely uninterested. i danced in front of her and took her hands and it was good, and then i tried talking to her, didnt work out. this girls friend left, and i am an alright dancer and can dance without grinding or whatever, so i was dancing in front of this girl rightwhen her friend left. bad move, she just followed her friend. im pretty sure i said something really stupid too.. succuss- i was dancing with this HB8 and i said this inher ear.. "i'd rate your dancing ability a 7 out of 10.. impress me, show me something or i might as well find someone else to dance with" she liked this, started doing more shit, got more into it. "alright nice, i am promoting you to a 7.5.." you get my point. my game disappeared when the song ended, but it was a good run considering she got into it.. there was this bitchy HB9 i was chillin with earlier in the night, i was on the couch upstairs, chillin on the phone, and these two girls came in the room, one stood against the wall and the other sat next to me. i made stupid comments, some that got me in, others that broke me. and i ucked up on the friends test, asking if they were good friends before i even know i just fucked up the test with that question.. anyway i said like "you guys are depressing me" and i should have just left, because they were angry at each other or something. anyway, another guy came in the room and tried to talk to them. i told him "dude good luck trying to break that forcefield, i don't think their into guys." later that night, i try dancing with the HB9 but her friend kept pulling her away (on purpose) bc she didnt want to have anything to do with me. i happened to be next to her and the guy she was dancing with and pulled some random girl over to me and after the song i said "yo dude dance with this girl, SHE will teach you a lesson" (talking about the girl i was with) and the HB9 got PISSSST. didnt even smile, just stared at me. hahaa it was funny as shit. these are my experiences, advice, comments, critiques are all welcome. tips much appreciated. -Rye |
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| Author: | xLINKx [ Sat Sep 15, 2007 4:48 pm ] |
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Dancing is probably the worst thing to kill my game ever. I just don't like it, it's awkward, can't really talk to them, etc.. |
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| Author: | Dionysus [ Sat Sep 15, 2007 5:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Clubs are hell for sarging |
Its hard, clubs are a difficult place to sarge. Its so loud you have to deliver a killer 3-5 word opener which is very hard. An example: I was opening a 3 set at the bar in a very loud club I had gone to with some female friends. Me: I need some female opinons on something. My friend just got his nipples pierced. I think its weird, what do you think? of course all they heard was "I got my nipples pierced" and "its weird" The least attractive girl in the group: "You're weird" (turns around to friends while rolling eyes) Clubs really only fit into my game as a place to take a girl I've just met. If you've done a good job attracting and don't dance like a total idiot its a good way to work on the 7 hours without having to keep running material. If anybody has some really good club material or techniques, I'd love to hear them. Dionysus |
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| Author: | djtetsu [ Sun Sep 16, 2007 4:05 am ] |
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I don't think it's all that bad to do it at clubs. I'm at a club twice a week on average. Ever since I've been learning this material, I've shyed away from the dance floor and got more into the smoking lounge so I can actually have conversations. Clubs typically have more dudes in there, and a lot girls go to clubs with a reservation NOT to hook up.. but all in all, it could be a good spot. I used to just start dancing with random girls on the dance floor but number closing typically won't be as solid as closing after a game-spread-convo. One method I do like when dancing is when a girl does some kind of grind on you (which may not be easy), you can tell her, "you're time's up" or "We gotta slow this down, I'm not easy", and then push her off. They will come running right back. |
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| Author: | Midnight24 [ Wed Sep 19, 2007 3:59 am ] |
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I feel at times that clubs are a hit or miss especially on the dance floor you can't really say much with all the loud music playing so you opening and even more so a conversation is very limited. However from my experience if I have been dancing with the girl for quite some time in the club that I'm actually able to isolate her like being her to the smokers lounge and run material from there. |
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