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Author:  CruelPike [ Fri Sep 14, 2007 12:11 pm ]
Post subject:  The sex thing!

An opener, a small talk with confidence and maybe a few negs with a smile and playful touch. A soft touch of her arm during a laugh...

I´m with you that far, but when and how am I supposed to show that I´m interested in her sexually?

I heard that it´s good to mention that she´s sexy or that she´s wearing something sexy or so on, but I also heard that I should not show her that I want to fuck her...

Can anyone give me a tip on how to level this and avoid to see a SOI from her and mess it up by being to direct with the sex thing?

Author:  Mr Fahrenheit [ Fri Sep 14, 2007 1:30 pm ]
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Yeh I want an answer here too, I want to know how she cant think of you without thinking of sex with you in the same train of thought.

Author:  EvoJ [ Fri Sep 14, 2007 1:44 pm ]
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Continue to use kino escalation. Yes the touch on the arm is a good START.
Incedental means casual or non-noticed touching. A tap here or a handshake there. Things like that.

Overt means obvious or intentional. You hold her hand for 5 seconds. You stroke her cheek.

Incidental Arms/hands for 3 or 4 touches (Brush her hand or touch her shoulder)
Overt Arms/hands for 3 or 4 touches (Hold her hand for 3-5 seconds NO MORE)

Incidental Legs/body for 3 or 4 touches. (Lead her across the room by the small of the back or while talking touch her knee/thigh)

Over Leg/body for 3 touches (Spank her ass playfully or stroke her leg while talking.

Incidental Face/neck 3 or so again. (Brush the hair out of her face, Touch her earrings while talking about them)

Overt Face/neck (Cup her face. Umm.. go from there.)


IT is all about KINO escalation! IF someone is touching you all the time you start to think about sex. Look at her with sexual intent, talk to her with it in your voice.

EvoJ

P.S. I did not come up with this ladder.. I dont remember who did but I didn't.

Author:  Jack [ Fri Sep 14, 2007 5:58 pm ]
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Quote:
Continue to use kino escalation. Yes the touch on the arm is a good START.
Incedental means casual or non-noticed touching. A tap here or a handshake there. Things like that.

Overt means obvious or intentional. You hold her hand for 5 seconds. You stroke her cheek.

Incidental Arms/hands for 3 or 4 touches (Brush her hand or touch her shoulder)
Overt Arms/hands for 3 or 4 touches (Hold her hand for 3-5 seconds NO MORE)

Incidental Legs/body for 3 or 4 touches. (Lead her across the room by the small of the back or while talking touch her knee/thigh)

Over Leg/body for 3 touches (Spank her ass playfully or stroke her leg while talking.

Incidental Face/neck 3 or so again. (Brush the hair out of her face, Touch her earrings while talking about them)

Overt Face/neck (Cup her face. Umm.. go from there.)


IT is all about KINO escalation! IF someone is touching you all the time you start to think about sex. Look at her with sexual intent, talk to her with it in your voice.

EvoJ

P.S. I did not come up with this ladder.. I dont remember who did but I didn't.
I use that one all the time. Works great.[/i]

Author:  Archangel White Rose [ Sat Sep 15, 2007 11:38 pm ]
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Here is the working mindset:
You don't care about sex. If you have sex it wouldn't make a difference to you. Having sex is YOUR choice and not hers.

Women (and people) always want what they can't get. Women can get sex from almost anyone, almost. If you show her that you can hold off on the sex she'll want it all the more. I've had women fuck me just to prove that it does matter to me (which it didn't)

Keep the mindset in mind and everything will work itself out.

Author:  RUSH [ Wed Nov 14, 2007 6:39 pm ]
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Quote:
Continue to use kino escalation. Yes the touch on the arm is a good START.
Incedental means casual or non-noticed touching. A tap here or a handshake there. Things like that.

Overt means obvious or intentional. You hold her hand for 5 seconds. You stroke her cheek.

Incidental Arms/hands for 3 or 4 touches (Brush her hand or touch her shoulder)
Overt Arms/hands for 3 or 4 touches (Hold her hand for 3-5 seconds NO MORE)

Incidental Legs/body for 3 or 4 touches. (Lead her across the room by the small of the back or while talking touch her knee/thigh)

Over Leg/body for 3 touches (Spank her ass playfully or stroke her leg while talking.

Incidental Face/neck 3 or so again. (Brush the hair out of her face, Touch her earrings while talking about them)

Overt Face/neck (Cup her face. Umm.. go from there.)


IT is all about KINO escalation! IF someone is touching you all the time you start to think about sex. Look at her with sexual intent, talk to her with it in your voice.

EvoJ

P.S. I did not come up with this ladder.. I dont remember who did but I didn't.
Works like a charm 95% of the time.
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Incidental Face/neck 3 or so again. (Brush the hair out of her face, Touch her earrings while talking about them)
I purposely move her hair so she notices that I want to look at her ears. I tell her I am checking to see how many times she has them pierced and what she is wearing in them. Then you can also neg her about the shape of her ears or lobe etc... Then I will say something about how this or that shape is dominate or recessive. (stuff I learned in Biology, gotta luv college).

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