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Author:  Descartes [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 5:39 am ]
Post subject:  GIRLS WHO NEG THEMSELVES
i was at the gym talking to a girl and she says "ive gained so much weight this year".

The AFC in me wanted to validate her and be like DUDE youre fucking hot

instead i just shut up

how should this be handled?
Author:  wbg [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 11:23 am ]
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aaaaa man this happened to me yesturday.... I HAD NO FUCKING IDEA WHAT TO SAY =/
ive been bashing my head over it since...
man if id say "wtf are you talking about ur hot" it would have given her the upper hand for sure =S

so instead I just ignored the comment... still cant think of a cocky-funny comeback tho
Author:  North [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 1:43 pm ]
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Best way is to sound a little bit patronizing but not serious. DHV, but don't insult the girl either.

"Maybe one day you'll have lost those extra pounds, who knows?"

Or by being direct.

"Tsss... Fishing for compliments,heh? For shame..."
Author:  Methuselah [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 2:53 pm ]
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"I know right, your HUGE!" - Sarcastic
"Shut up, your about as fat as you are smart" - CF
"Then you better get your ass on that treadmill girl."
Author:  BlackBull [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 2:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: GIRLS WHO NEG THEMSELVES
Quote:
i was at the gym talking to a girl and she says "ive gained so much weight this year".

The AFC in me wanted to validate her and be like DUDE youre fucking hot

instead i just shut up

how should this be handled?
This is called a shit test.

Answer:See what Meth wrote.
Author:  Numen [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 6:18 pm ]
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I agree with meth.. here's a few that have gotten me numbers

"you think you've gained weight? look at my ass" (turn around so they can look.. this opens you to neg them for staring)

"self loathing aren't we? I see you've never gone on a beach run..."

"you think you've gained weight? what about that one drowning over there?" (point to a chick about 25 pounds overweight overdoing herself at the gym as there always is one)
Author:  jinla [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 6:46 pm ]
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I am not sure a girl who has already DLVd herself needs to be negged any further. What she wanted was for you to HV her by telling her you thought she was hot (telegraphing your interest). This would be nice for her but then she would lose interest in you cause you are no longer a challenge. I NEVER HV a girl unless its to tell her she looks great with my load on her face.

She has made the first move for you, so next time just come back with something ambiguous like:

(None of these are field tested)

"i just dropped a couple of pounds on so and so diet, and x min on the treadmill daily"

"i could turn you on to a couple of diets"

"cardio works best for losing weight"

"i stopped drinking for a week and lost x lbs immediately"

None of these show you feel one way or another about her physique. Your just being a helpful guy. Now you have her guessing as to whether you are attracted to her. If it works, she will try even harder to gain your acceptance. She will probably DLV until you do something to stop it. So carry a shovel in case you need to scrape her off the pavement.

ok some neg ones
"if only you were one of those girls who looked better with a couple extra pounds"

"a lot of guys like thicker girls"
Author:  xxIcexx [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 7:14 pm ]
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i would go with what meth said

preferably
"I know right, your HUGE!" - Sarcastic

laugh laugh then i would ask how often shes comes and offer to help her work out, get her number, BAM
Author:  DW [ Tue Sep 11, 2007 12:01 am ]
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Quote:
"Shut up, your about as fat as you are smart" - CF
lmao thats good. there are a lot of problems with girls negging themselves being all "god im so dumb" but thats like half kidding and easy to neg off

but there are those who are like.. emo. ie "i suck at everything, there is no point in life. like... really, theres nothing im good at" and im no good with these, i've always inner-AFC-ed-out, but once i did this.

"ok. if you think you suck at whatever, then go take lessons or read about it and get better. if you tihnk life sucks, well tough luck. kill yourself or make it good. and if you cant, at least stop making other people miserable and shut the fuck up"

that didnt work too well... but this girl was like a ... 3 who just annoyed the hell out of eveyrone.

anyway thats my insight, the best i can give abou tthis topic at least lol.
Author:  sandman808 [ Tue Sep 11, 2007 1:04 pm ]
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Quote:
"I know right, your HUGE!" - Sarcastic
"Then you better get your ass on that treadmill girl."
these are A+
Author:  Tricks [ Tue Sep 11, 2007 3:53 pm ]
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its simple just say yeah me too. short and subtle neg. then make up a weekly run that u go on by yourself and invite her to join u. :D
Author:  Archangel White Rose [ Tue Sep 11, 2007 7:25 pm ]
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Meth rules on this one. My regular is: "I didn't want to say anything before, but now that you bring it up your really..." and leave her on a cliff hanger. She'll fill in the NEG herself, and probably better than you could.
Author:  PeepingTom [ Wed Sep 12, 2007 2:37 am ]
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What if you happen to be a chubby chaser and the girl who negs herself is actually overweight?

Still stick to Meth's advice?
Author:  Methuselah [ Wed Sep 12, 2007 3:25 am ]
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Depends on how big she is, I wouldn't call her huge if she actually is, you might strike a nerve there.
Author:  Whitey [ Wed Sep 12, 2007 4:50 am ]
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I have a female friend who likes me and shes honestly bulimic. One time she was over and wouldn't eat so my dad goes "ARE YOU FUCKING ANOREXIC?"



yeah not good.


I go AFC on her because I'm not interested
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