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| Author: | NaturalPUA [ Thu Mar 18, 2010 7:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Getting Stuck |
Guys, I have the knack of getting stuck in the attraction phase and sometimes do not transition into the qualifying stages of the PU. I know this is a huge mistake, but I do think that this is largely due to the feeling of power with all the IOIs and feeling on top of the world when you can see her getting attracted to you... But guess what, this can be a setback. A major setback. I think this is the reason why I still only get 1/2 per ten girls approached. If you do not move throught the entire model it is easy to get same night lays but becomes more difficult to build relationships and you have more flakes. I have gone through the M3 model. And I have noticed that this model is not 100% accurate but is quite a nice model to follow. Build attraction, then comfort and then seduce. Some nights you can actually skip the comfort phase but she might have buyers remorse and will thus flake on future meetings. Happens more often than not with the "Fools Mate". I think that Mystery was correct in saying that there should be comfort. I have tried this during the last week. Harder to get laid but easier to build relationships... Is that what you guys have experienced as well? I am just scared that when I try and build comfort the conversation is going to go stale and either the HB or I will find it extremely boring. How can we build comfort and keep it interesting. Do we DHV and build comfort at the same time by telling stories that shows our value but is still light hearted and funny. See I enjoy being an entertainer and dont want to appear boring. Not a fear, just so used to being the center of attention that it's hard giving up your seat of power!!! Keep you guys posted on my results when I try and bring some comfort into my game. |
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| Author: | minsok [ Fri Mar 19, 2010 1:44 am ] |
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Scoring with 1 or 2 girls is better than what you were doing right? You should focus on getting girls you like. I mean, is it your goal to be able to fuck every girl you meet? What happened to your self-esteem that you need that? |
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| Author: | Rap2010 [ Fri Mar 19, 2010 4:12 am ] |
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For some it's about getting laid. And for some it's about building a relationship |
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| Author: | TheTruthPUA [ Fri Mar 19, 2010 5:58 am ] |
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some of you guys really overthink somethings... everything shouldn't be so step to step just be natural strike up a good convosation, and have some fun... |
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